re: 16. with 1 child. pregnant with 2nd. advice?

Quoting MommyofSpartan's:" Well you sound like your pretty tough to me, and you know what it takes. I wish you and your little family the nest of luck, and remember it's okay to take a step back and breathe."

Thank you and the best of wishes to you and your family aswell.  

Quoting Jonathan's Mommy+))):" im in school right now. and we have a daycare near our school. its a private catholic school. my dad ... [snip!] ... would see that not all young moms are stupid and unprepared. granted yes my first i was unprepared because it was unplanned"

i wish u the best i was 15 having my 1st and had another close after at 17, im now mom to 4 kids and no 5 is due in 10 weeks, i know all the type of crap u have to listen to being a teen mom but i think your better equipped physically and emotionally when ur a teen
wishing u a healthy 2nd baby  

<blockquote><b>Quoting One in the oven{4/2/13}:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Shorty ♔:</b>" Don't let all these females put you down. ... [snip!] ... parents support because you LIVE at their house. Don't act all high and mighty unless you pay your own way with your OWN home."</blockquote>




shut up bitch. i can pay for my own smurf. we're gonna be paying half rent with my folks.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Shorty ♔:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting One in the oven{4/2/13}:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting ... [snip!] ... your OWN home."</blockquote> shut up bitch. i can pay for my own smurf. we're gonna be paying half rent with my folks."</blockquote>




Do you own your own home or rent your own place BY YOURSELF or with your SO? No?, then you're not making it on your own and have no idea about paying ALL the bills and diapers, clothes, formula(if not bfing) and ALL other necessities. You're still relying on your parents for help.

Quoting J+K=Bri :" <blockquote><b>Quoting Shorty ♔:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting One ... [snip!] ... the bills and diapers, clothes, formula(if not bfing) and ALL other necessities. You're still relying on your parents for help."

Yup, yup.
As I mentioned above, it's allot different and harder living all on your own. I wish people would take advice and learn from other people's knowledge. People are too hard headed to though...

haha. uhm. like i said, i can handle my own smurf. the diapers, formula. no smurf. i thought everything was free. ha no. like i said, i can own up to my own smurf. im not mooching off anyone. i can buy whatever my son or daughter needs with no help. ima be paying half rent, Or should i say we. me and my bd are gonna be putting in on rent. dont tell me something i already know. i never said it was gonna be easy.

Ok, you'll find out in a few years what we're talking about.
It's different, trust me, I know.

well know what, ina couple years we'll talk. i know your right, ofcorse it is. but ima do everything i gotta do so my baby can have a good life. every mother wants that. Gotta stand before you walk though.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Shorty ♔:</b>" haha. uhm. like i said, i can handle my own smurf. the diapers, formula. no smurf. i thought everything ... [snip!] ... say we. me and my bd are gonna be putting in on rent. dont tell me something i already know. i never said it was gonna be easy."</blockquote>




Sorry not trying to be a bitch here but I drop 2800 the first of every month on rent, daycare and bills. That doesn't include both of my girls and what they need . You think having one is easy just wait I'm pregnant with baby number three thank god I finished college and have an amazing job and can afford everything on my own as a single mom. I don't have to depend on my ex for anything even it comes to my kids or bills. That's good that you can pay HALF the rent and whatever else your kids need but just wait ... That's all I have to say . Reality a bitch end of story.

I did have a baby at 16 and trust me it's not as easy as you think it is . All the girls now a days think its a walk in the park ... Just wait you will soon understand what I'm talking about .

Quoting Emma and Charlette Momma:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Shorty ♔:</b>" haha. uhm. like i said, i can handle my ... [snip!] ... pay HALF the rent and whatever else your kids need but just wait ... That's all I have to say . Reality a bitch end of story."

Well, that just shows how good a teen mom COULD* be. To finish school and get a good job and being independent. Such as yourself. I know its not gonna be a walk in the park. But hey if you could do it at 16. What makes you think not anyother teenage parent can't? Well ima just make sure i can do my part. I insipire you though. Thats great of you to accomplish so much for being a mother at a young age and going on her 3rd.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Shorty ♔:</b>" Well, that just shows how good a teen mom COULD* be. To finish school and get a good job and being ... [snip!] ... part. I insipire you though. Thats great of you to accomplish so much for being a mother at a young age and going on her 3rd. "</blockquote>




but you shouldnt be going through that at your age . Ive learnt the hard way i love my babies dont get me wrong i love them to death but if i could have them just the way they are at a later age i would have. Its sucks seeing other teen have to struggle and go through what i went through at their age because i know what its like. If i could stop one teen from getting pregnant so young and having to struggle like i did to get to where i am today than my job is done. Yes im having my third and last baby but thats because im in a place where i can financially and emotionally do it .

<blockquote><b>Quoting Emma and Charlette Momma:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Shorty ♔:</b>" Well, that just shows how good a teen ... [snip!] ... is done. Yes im having my third and last baby but thats because im in a place where i can financially and emotionally do it ."</blockquote>




the only reason i got pregnant was.cause i was on the pill. But the doctor made me stop, from me being on the pill formed a tumor in my left breast. Well yea your words make me think theres nothing i can do now, i had my first ultrasound yesterday, a little marshin is in me. I can't turn my back on it. Thanks for the.advice and i enjoyed hearing what.you had to say

<blockquote><b>Quoting Shorty ♔:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Emma and Charlette Momma:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting ... [snip!] ... a little marshin is in me. I can't turn my back on it. Thanks for the.advice and i enjoyed hearing what.you had to say"</blockquote>




Im not trying to say there nothing you can do. You can do anything you put your mind to and i dknt expect you to turn your back on it. I never did i just faced it head on . There will be ups and downs and how you deal with it is what makes you the person you are. You will be a good mom and you will do anything for your baby. Just remember this now anything you do in your life is for them. Instead of having people say oh well yiu cant do anything youll be a welfare mom and soo on prove them wrong. I no i did . Its juat hard growing up so fast like that.

Quoting Emma and Charlette Momma:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Shorty ♔:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Emma ... [snip!] ... cant do anything youll be a welfare mom and soo on prove them wrong. I no i did . Its juat hard growing up so fast like that."

Yup, i hope your here if i need someone to talk to when times get hard for me.
Thank's and i know i will. it'll be hard but i can put my mind too it. And Just one more year of high school and im done.