re: 16. with 1 child. pregnant with 2nd. advice?

Quoting 1st1ontheway:" You want advice? I know I'm going to get some people irritated but here it goes.... Keep your nose in ... [snip!] ... in your books and your legs out of the air. You have plenty of time to have children later. Enjoy being young while you can."

WSS   

Quoting Jonathan's Mommy+))):" im in school right now. and we have a daycare near our school. its a private catholic school. my dad ... [snip!] ... would see that not all young moms are stupid and unprepared. granted yes my first i was unprepared because it was unplanned"

Are you saying that your current pregnancy was planned?
Maybe you need to reevaluate your life.

Quoting 1st1ontheway:" You want advice? I know I'm going to get some people irritated but here it goes.... Keep your nose in ... [snip!] ... in your books and your legs out of the air. You have plenty of time to have children later. Enjoy being young while you can."

actually i cant...i have a mild form of progeria. and i literally will not know when i will go through menopause. could be soon. and drs are surprised i havent already

<blockquote><b>Quoting Jonathan's Mommy+))):</b>" yes this one was planned for. the bmw was in the discussion to show my dad and mom arent really supportive ... [snip!] ... mom arent really supportive or even knowing how to help me or give me advice if they are trying to bribe me to get an abortion"</blockquote>




I'd have to kick your ass if you were my child and purposely got pregnant with their second child at 16. Something is not adding up... how van you afford daycare, bilks and everything you and 2 children need at 16. On top of it all you're supporting your bf too? I call BS!

<blockquote><b>Quoting Jonathan's Mommy+))):</b>" yes this one was planned for. the bmw was in the discussion to show my dad and mom arent really supportive ... [snip!] ... mom arent really supportive or even knowing how to help me or give me advice if they are trying to bribe me to get an abortion"</blockquote>




Say what?!?! You planned a second pregnancy at 16 when you live with your parents and support your boyfriend!??


Someone tell me I am over tired and have read this all wrong! Please?

Quoting Emily Fried:" If he doesn't buy you the bmw tell him to feel free and pass that smurf this way!"

we can adopt you! lol

baby or BMW... Hmm... That'd be a no brainer for me!

Quoting 2manykidz:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Jonathan's Mommy+))):</b>" yes this one was planned for. the ... [snip!] ... afford daycare, bilks and everything you and 2 children need at 16. On top of it all you're supporting your bf too? I call BS!"

well i work as a waitress at a high end resturant owned by my uncle. i make decent. i make do with what i have and am able to provide for my son because i dont by myself unecessary things and only buy what i really need

Quoting 2manykidz:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Jonathan's Mommy+))):</b>" yes this one was planned for. the ... [snip!] ... afford daycare, bilks and everything you and 2 children need at 16. On top of it all you're supporting your bf too? I call BS!"

and going to school...
don't forget that part lol

Quoting Kristin B.:" and going to school... don't forget that part lol"

it does sound impossible. it is VERY hard dont get me wrong. i just dont go out with friends at all. and relax when i can

High end waitress????


Is that what they are called these days??? ;-) hahaha

Quoting Jonathan's Mommy+))):" we can adopt you! lol"

YES!!
I promise I wont get knocked up til after I get the car!

so whos your son? lucas or jonathan? 

Quoting One in the oven{4/2/13}:" High end waitress???? Is that what they are called these days??? ;-) hahaha"

idiot......

you REALLY don't know how to read do you.
i said i am a WAITRESS at a high end resturant

not a high end waitress. you need some hooked on phonics . SERIOUSLY

Quoting Jonathan's Mommy+))):" it does sound impossible. it is VERY hard dont get me wrong. i just dont go out with friends at all. and relax when i can"

You shouldn't even have time to relax. I went to college full time while holding down a full time job and barely even had time to think straight. Friends are totally out of the question...taking care of a child would be too. Unless you're some kind of "super mom" idk how the hell you're pulling all this off...