re: If you were a young mom

Quoting Talena_caro:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Nigel Thornberry:</b>" If you had your baby when you were in ... [snip!] ... or did they disappear? "</blockquote> If your friends don't have baby's they won't be sticking around.. Sad but true"

Not always true. It all depends on who the person is and how much they value your friendship. I have been friends with my best friend for 12 years now, and she doesn't have a kid.

Quoting Talena_caro:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Nigel Thornberry:</b>" If you had your baby when you were in ... [snip!] ... or did they disappear? "</blockquote> If your friends don't have baby's they won't be sticking around.. Sad but true"

not true...I literally have the same friends I've had since middle school...I've acquired new ones along the way of course but still have my same old friends...most of my friends are kidless, like 90 percent of them.

I think it's something that goes both ways...when someone gets pregnant they revolve their life around that without trying to make an effort to still have one on one bff time...and then some friends without kids have a hard time understanding that having a child s hard and that things change...

MOST OF YOUR "FRIENDS" WILL PROBABLY END UP BEING THE KIDS YOU WWENT TO SCHOOL WITH.

I only have my family and recently started talking again with a friend from highschool but because she is pregnant too now. Oh i lied i have another friend who i dearly adore she never stopped talking to me i'm the one that pulled away when i was pregnant I was 16 though.

I got pregnant AFTER I graduated (I graduated early), and whether I had a kid or not all my friends seemed to get too busy since I didn't have class with them anymore. I basically have to start all over and make all new friends.
But It's kinda awesome because now that I look back, most of my "friends" in high school sucked.

i was14when i fell pregnant with my twins i still stay in contact with 3 best friends but i havent actually visited her in ages as i moved away