re: My F***n Boyfriend (may be long)

I know how you feel as well, my boyfriend doesnt go out that much but when he does it has to be to a bar... he cant go anywhere else, he needs "His night out". Not only am i prego too, but im not 21 so i get really upset that it has to be out at a bar drinking, cuz either way i cant go or do it with him. He cant ever go somewhere where i can or somewhere we can hang out together. and it doesnt help my future MIL whenever she wants to go out with him they go to bars... i feel really left out every time, they never consider anywhere else but bars   so i know EXACTLY what ur feeling.

Quoting NicolaW ~ Mommy To Be!:“ Nah, I dont think when baby gets here he's just gonna leave me and the baby on weekends for his boys. ... [snip!] ... wants to avoid that at all costs. We both come from broken homes growing up and we dont want our baby going through that too.”

If you guys like hanging out together then tell him you want to get a sitter on the weekends to watch the baby when its bornso you can have a "date night" or "party night" whatever you wanna call it which is why its so important to you that you be equal during pregnancy so that after pregnancy you can still be equal and no one person is being stuck home alone and its fair.

Why not go out with him and be the DD that way he can go out and be out longer and drink whenever he wants? My husbands buddies werent all "excited" that we only go out together because of me being pregnant until they realized I was DD and they always needed rides home lol. Plus he gets to stay out twice as long when I go with him.

Quoting Cowgirl47429:“ If you guys like hanging out together then tell him you want to get a sitter on the weekends to watch ... [snip!] ... equal during pregnancy so that after pregnancy you can still be equal and no one person is being stuck home alone and its fair.”

Sorry what does DD mean? Yes I agree 100%... I just sent him a 'hate' text message... "are you having fun getting wasted?" that's prob gonna start a fight

I also tried to call his mom but she didnt answer!  

Quoting NicolaW ~ Mommy To Be!:“ I also tried to call his mom but she didnt answer!  ”

hopefuly she helps! unlike my bf's mom who usually is the one who gets him to go out in the first place!  

Quoting NicolaW ~ Mommy To Be!:“ Sorry what does DD mean? Yes I agree 100%... I just sent him a 'hate' text message... "are you having fun getting wasted?" that's prob gonna start a fight”

Designated Driver. The sober one who drives everyone home when they are done stubbling everywhere lol.

Quoting Cowgirl47429:“ Designated Driver. The sober one who drives everyone home when they are done stubbling everywhere lol.”

oh ok! yea i have thought about that but i have tried this before and i just ended up being miserable and depressed watching everyone else drink and smoke their cigs while i just watched. so i'd rather just avoid those places for now. god i am such a grump.

Quoting xloxbrittanyxolx:“ hopefuly she helps! unlike my bf's mom who usually is the one who gets him to go out in the first place!  ”

Yeah if she sees it as "her baby is never wrong" it doesnt help but if you have a decent MIL then it does help. Mine would chew his butt out if he even upset me lol. You'll hear "you want me to get a switch??" then "no maam"   Gotta love the southern boys lol

Quoting NicolaW ~ Mommy To Be!:“ oh ok! yea i have thought about that but i have tried this before and i just ended up being miserable ... [snip!] ... else drink and smoke their cigs while i just watched. so i'd rather just avoid those places for now. god i am such a grump.”

no you arent! thats understandable, i hated seeing my bf and roomates have parties at our apartment and all be drinking and laughing and i'd just be sitting there.... sober. If your a grump, im a grump cuz it sucks!

Quoting Cowgirl47429:“ Yeah if she sees it as "her baby is never wrong" it doesnt help but if you have a decent MIL then it ... [snip!] ... out if he even upset me lol. You'll hear "you want me to get a switch??" then "no maam"   Gotta love the southern boys lol”

ahaha damnit i wish she was like that

Quoting NicolaW ~ Mommy To Be!:“ oh ok! yea i have thought about that but i have tried this before and i just ended up being miserable ... [snip!] ... else drink and smoke their cigs while i just watched. so i'd rather just avoid those places for now. god i am such a grump.”

You can still dance. I loved dancing even when I was pregnant. I wasnt even the only pregnant girl there. Luckly most all the clubs I have seen in the past 4 years have been smoke free except outside so the only thing I watched was drinking but it was alright because they had to buy all my non-alcoholis drinks if they wanted a ride lol

Quoting xloxbrittanyxolx:“ ahaha damnit i wish she was like that”

Its funny as hell to see it lol Me being the girl those kind of "manners" werent as important (plus I wouldnt follow them anyways I'm too stubborn) but yes maam and no maam go over GREAT in a boys manners. Its like a instant "he's a keeper" to parents.   The girls have to be tough so they stand up to the snobby "my boys perfect" mother in-laws.

Ok so I just got off the phone with his mom. And I had this thread open the whole time basically telling her all the reasons why he should be home that u guys told me... she sounded pretty pissed, she will speak to him. I feel much better now, she doesnt put up with his shit! lol... also he texted me back saying "please dont be mean"

Quoting Cowgirl47429:“ Its funny as hell to see it lol Me being the girl those kind of "manners" werent as important (plus ... [snip!] ... "he's a keeper" to parents.   The girls have to be tough so they stand up to the snobby "my boys perfect" mother in-laws.”

lol maybe i need to move down south then. Im all the way up here in maine