re: I HATE my MIL club/thread!
posted 5th Sep '12
I cant stand my own mother being home all day on vacation. I pulled my musles in my back and its effecting my nerve in my leg and i am in a lot of pain and she acts like i can jump out of my chair at the drop of a coin.... I was trying to get up to take my son to the bathroom he was starting to go on the floor....quote
posted 5th Sep '12
Quoting Epic Big Head:" Ohhhh I love this so much. I hate all of my inlaws. All of them. Things my MIL has done: 1. called ... [snip!] ... years old, does it matter?. No, it was an drive by sperming. That smurfer came out of nowhere. Ahhhh thank you for this "
hahah i seriously cracked up reading this. At least you have a positive attitude about it! You seem to let it just brush off your shoulders
posted 5th Sep '12
wow i just fit in here! my mil is a controlling crybaby that blames me for her son moving out and having a job out of town.. and if shes not crying complaining that i should do things her way.. then shes pretending i dont exist...
she should be thanking me.. if it wasnt for me telling hubby to talk to his mom when she calls or making him visit atleast once while hes in town shed never see him.. i dont like the lady and i understand why he hits the fu button when she calls twenty times a day or cries when he visits because i wont let her control me or because he works out of town.. ect.. but she is his mom...still doesnt mean it gives her the right to go around telling everyone im keeping the kids from her when im not.. or make a scene at the hospital when the baby was born because we didnt want her in the delivery room and we wanted my firstborn with just me hubby and the baby first before everyone else came in...
oh theres so much more! just glad im not tge only one with problems
posted 6th Sep '12
Yep I fit in here. My MIL thinks I cannot parent worth a crap. Yelled in my face the day my son was born about not circing him, she literately screamed in my face about how it was disgusting no one would love him ever and how terrible I was. Ever since then she thinks I cannot parent. She told me to give him water for hiccups at 3 weeks old.. And recently gave him formula because it was 'easier than thawing out your breast milk that I don't want to touch'. She's always telling me I should stop being 'so selfish' and my 'life isn't about me anymore'. I just wanna be like GOD DAMN shut up I know... I already have an almost 3 year old daughter. I used to like her, but ever since telling her I wanted her to leave the hospital she's been a majooor bitch. She says I've done great with my daughter but don't understand why I can't parent a boy? (she has 3 boys) and her youngest, my boyfriend she was in prison for 7 years of his life. I wish she's stop giving me advice when she couldn't even handle 3 of her own.quote
posted 6th Sep '12
Oo I want in..I have Satan's whole family mil fil and sil all blow smurfsquotesmurfs?
posted 7th Sep '12
S/O told MIL that I said(and this is true I actually said) that one day I might find it in me to actually be around her again. But that I didn't ever see myself being around Lupe (my SIL) and that I can't see myself ever forgiving her or wanting my kids around her.
Well the next day, SIL is liking comments I leave for other family members on FB and trying to reply to my comments like "Lol @Bunni" ect ect.
Nice try bitch I see right past your fakeness.
Smurf off and die in a ditch.
posted 7th Sep '12
I have been that SIL....
but only because I had that SIL!
25% of it was because I felt my brother could do better, 75% was because she's a smurfin dumbass and used to "get around". And her kids are so disrespectful, omg. Luckily, my SIL and I got past our problems and are on good terms.
But as for my MIL, smurf went down when I was pregnant because my family "stole" her son, posted smurf on facebook about it and even left my SO a long, nasty wall post(to which she got blocked by both of us),she texted my SO calling him pussy whipped and DEMANDED rights to see my son! Like, yeah right bitch, I don't want your crazy to rub off on him. Then she made a big deal when I had my son because I didn't want any vistitors because I wanted SO and I to spend time with our son first.
She's brought 3 things for my son, and has seen him a handful of times, half of the times us having to drive an hour to go to her. Yet she comes to our town all the time and never stops by or texts asking about her grandson.
When all her crazy bullsmurf went down I bit my tongue, like I literally had a hole in my cheek. I'm just waiting for more smurf to pop off, because I will definitely tell her how it is.
Okay, I'm done lol. Felt nice to vent.
posted 7th Sep '12
I hAte my smurfing mil. Right now all of my in laws after SO and I opened up our home to his sister and paid for her food and shelter for four months only to find out she was getting high and blowing all the. Ones she was getting fromSS, and then paying for his mother to p come here and stay with us so she could see her family, only to have her leave early because she couldn't stand being around her junkie daughter...and then she pays for a smurfing plane ticket to have her junkie daughter come live with her, now her other daughter (SO's other sister) is about to be homeless with her three kids and his mom can't afford to help her. So she and her three kids come live with us, in our already cramped house, with our kids (my two step kids at least) struggling already? When does SHE have to step up and be the parent? SO told her he feels abandoned by her, like he has to be the parent and has since he was young (his mom was a crackhead and SO was the oldest, and also had a different dad, and his step dad was abusive) and her response is to talk smurf about him to everybody. I smurfing hate her for making the father of my children cry, and feel guilty, when all he has ever done is stick up for and support everyone else, even at the risk of his own wellbeing. Hatehatehate.
SIL has done a whole bunch of smurf too, but this is just too much.
Proof that my boyfriend has to take on the brunt of the responsibility? He just had to getout of bed to go pick up his brother and his nephew to take them to the hospital. Whycouldn't they call an ambulance? I wish I could just start being the bad guy and start saying no for him. I hate them all for putting the world on his shoulders. I just want to get him and my kids away from the drama and chaos they all choose for their lives. Sorry for misspelled words and weirdness grammar wise, I'm pissy and tired and on my iPad
posted 8th Sep '12
I MUST JOIN!!!!
ok so my mil is hitler grand daughter ...not really but she is a german smurf bag..
when me and DH first got together she was so nice... but when we got married.. the smurfen sheeps cloth came off and there she was the devil in the flesh!!
always putting her nose where it doesnt belong bragging on hos she fights ALL the time with my husbands ex and my SIL. which I told her I wont fight with her i will just ignore her..(which i do sooo well)
when DH and I got Pg with my #1 she said ahhh just another grand kid and that was the end of that she doesnt care about my son but gets pissed off cause i never send her pictures or anything like that. (DH has 3 other children 1 only DNA proven to be his the other 2 are unknown but we still love them all just the same even though there mother is a whore bag)
FIL called me a fatt ass at least 1000 times while i was PG with DS. (he is a smurf face as well)
after DS was born... they didnt see him for the first 6 weeks of his life (they lived less than a mile from our house.) didnt call to say congrats. she was on my fb so i know she knew i had him.
only seen him 3 times (about 5 mins each time) the whole 6 months we lived close to them.. then we moved back to my hometown where my family is 2 1/2 hours away// (thank god) so my family could be with my son since they love him more than they love me!
they just made the trip down to "visit" about a month ago.. DS was 14 months old.. they went out to eat with us.. we payed.. then left and went back home when we left logans...
they get my husbands kids ALL the time the bitch ex wife hates me and my son. so she gives the kids to the inlaws to spite us. and when they get them they dont even let us know they have them ...( were supose to get them 2 weekends a month an 2 two week spains out of the year) we have seen them once (for one day) in dec. and before that we didnt have them any after she found out i was pg. thanks to my MIL so my son has met his sister one time for one day in 15 months...
my MIL calls me names to my (dh;s brothers wife) SIL all the time and of course my SIL tells me all about it. I think it is funny that my name is coated in chocolate.. cause the bitch cant keep it out of her mouth.. I just really hate her and feel so bad for my husband that he had to live with that monster. so glad my moms the sweet lady she is and my DH loves her more than his own mother..
.... dont even get me started on my brothers smurf wife... I could legit run her over with a lawnmower and chop her fat ass to shreds. and her demon kids also
I'm TTC since June '12, have 1 child & 3 angel babies & live in Tennessee