re: I HATE my MIL club/thread!

Can anyone offer advice on how theyve been able to move on?

Some of this literally eats me alive

Now SIL is pregnant again and they all are soo happy no one gave a smurf about us, or gave our son any attention at all

it hurts

Quoting Pot:" Can anyone offer advice on how theyve been able to move on? Some of this literally eats me alive Now ... [snip!] ... SIL is pregnant again and they all are soo happy no one gave a smurf about us, or gave our son any attention at all it hurts"

I wouldn't stress it. Let them miss out. Your son sure as hell isn't because people can't take 2 seconds and give him attention. Let the people that really care and that are really happy have his time

IS this really a thread? Like a serious i hate my MIL?

<blockquote><b>Quoting ❥Mère:</b>" IS this really a thread? Like a serious i hate my MIL? "</blockquote>




Yes it is

Quoting ❥Mère:" IS this really a thread? Like a serious i hate my MIL? "

read some of the posts lol

Quoting Ravey Candyass:" <blockquote><b>Quoting ❥Mère:</b>" IS this really a thread? Like a serious i hate my MIL? "</blockquote> Yes it is"

I'm in smurfing heaven I HATE my MIL with a deep passion. holy smurf i'm so excited.     

Fought my SIL outside the club awhile back...

Hate the bitch, I also hate my EX mil as well....

I call his sister squidward because of her large bulbous nose... his mom is just plain bitch.

Quoting ❥Mère:" I'm in smurfing heaven I HATE my MIL with a deep passion. holy smurf i'm so excited.     "

I was very excited when I saw this thread as well. I didn't realize that it was normal to hate someone as much as I hate my fiance's mother and sisters sometimes. Bitches.

SIL talks to S/O on fb.
She tags him in this picture of a puppy and says
"Get me one!!!"
Biiiig surprise, the spoiled, bratty, baby of the family talks to him to ASK for something. Who would've guessed 

Also not like she's take care of it. They keep dogs outside once they're big and not cute anymore and basically neglect them.

Found out my future MIL tried to cancel my wedding cake, which is the only thing me and SO could get her to pay for, for the wedding. She's been starting so much drama I had called the bakery a week prior to her cancelling it and asked them to switch it to my name and gave them the rundown about how she has been lately. I am so thankful I did because she wasn't going to tell us she cancelled it she was just going to wait until our wedding and us not have a cake. We decided on officially uninviting her to our ceremony and reception because of all this. Why does she have to be such a psycho!? We have NEVER done anything to her but not let her constantly have her way with everything we do. We are independent and she despises that we don't let her rule our lives.

Quoting Mylie + Taryn:" Found out my future MIL tried to cancel my wedding cake, which is the only thing me and SO could get ... [snip!] ... her constantly have her way with everything we do. We are independent and she despises that we don't let her rule our lives."

You didnt have to do anything. Its not you its her. She's threatened by you.

I keep doing that too - "what did I do??" "Whats wrong with me??"

Its not us in most cases - its them. And it would probably be anyone else too

Quoting Pot:" You didnt have to do anything. Its not you its her. She's threatened by you. I keep doing that too ... [snip!] ... too - "what did I do??" "Whats wrong with me??" Its not us in most cases - its them. And it would probably be anyone else too"

     

I just feel so sad about it sometimes. Like what could this woman think of me and our relationship to pull this much smurf.

My MIL told my husband today that she wanted to move to Chicago, which is 6+ hours away from us.

*FINGERS MOTHER-SmUrfING CROSSED*

Ohhhh I love this so much. I hate all of my inlaws. All of them.

Things my MIL has done:
1. called me one day to ask me what drugs I took while I was pregnant, because she saw an ad on tv that antidepressants caused autism and she was sure that's what caused my daughter to have it.

2. After my brain surgery, she brought over food only for my husband and didn't tell us it had milk in it and my youngest has a severe milk allergy. We don't allow dairy in the house and she knows it.

3. Refused to have anything to do with my daughter for 2 years because she didn't know how to "handle" autism. Instead, she'd just like pages on facebook to show her support of autism awareness lmao

4. my husband refuses to see how manipulative she is and says that i am looking to start a fight with her. He sides with her every time on every subject.

5. Posted a status update that she had the most wonderful daughter in law in the world - and tagged my SIL in it.

My bitch SIL
1. Gave me baby clothes saying that she was done having children, only to demand all of them back 6 months later :/

2. Tells me she knows all about autism because she is a teacher and had one autistic student once. or maybe he had ADD, she didn't know.

3. Posted a rant about mothers who use strollers past age 3 are lazy and their kids should walk. My profile picture on facebook was of me and my 3 year old autistic daughter in a stroller out on a walk.

4. Posted IN THE SAME UPDATE about how a dear friend had died and she was so sad, but look at my new car I bought today! I'm so happy!  

5. Complains frequently about how other people are dressed out in public, but she's the frumpiest person I've ever met.

6. And my favorite - When we announced to the family at a get together that I was pregnant with my youngest she asked....

Was this planned???  

I was 33 smurfing years old, does it matter?. No, it was an drive by sperming. That smurfer came out of nowhere.

Ahhhh thank you for this