re: I HATE my MIL club/thread!

My MIL is a psycho. There is much to say. She called CPS on me last year for allegedly molesting my daughter. She has impetigo on he bum and had already been to the doctor and was on antibiotics.


She told my grandmother at MY wedding reception what a whore I was and how much of a snotty bitch I am.

She stormed out of my baby shower and peeled out in DH's truck because she claimed I looked like the girl who killed herself at her work. She never saw alleged girl because she stayed inside.

She thinks I am turning DH against her and that he isn't allowed to call her when I am home. The truth is he just doesn't want to talk to her dumbass.

She got pissed off because DH was more concerned about me eating dinner than her. I was pregnant at the time and he knew I needed to eat.

She refused to let me drive DH's truck when he was at boot camp because girls aren't allowed to drive his truck.

She tried to make DH take a paternity test because DD wasn't a boy so she couldn't be his since his family goes boy girl and DD was born first.

When we found out DD was girl, all she said to me was, " I guess you got what you wanted." I cried all the way home.


There are so many more stories. I just don't have time to type them all out.,

Quoting Addi's Momma:" My MIL is a psycho. There is much to say. She called CPS on me last year for allegedly molesting my daughter. ... [snip!] ... got what you wanted." I cried all the way home. There are so many more stories. I just don't have time to type them all out.,"

what a smurffy mother in law you have. omg.

Quoting Addi's Momma:" My MIL is a psycho. There is much to say. She called CPS on me last year for allegedly molesting my daughter. ... [snip!] ... got what you wanted." I cried all the way home. There are so many more stories. I just don't have time to type them all out.,"

That's pretty smurfed up.

Quoting I♥MyTots:" what a smurffy mother in law you have. omg."

What a bitch!

<blockquote><b>Quoting Addi's Momma:</b>" My MIL is a psycho. There is much to say. She called CPS on me last year for allegedly molesting my daughter. ... [snip!] ... got what you wanted." I cried all the way home. There are so many more stories. I just don't have time to type them all out.,"</blockquote>


What a childish smurf.

She is such a bitch. DH doesn't get it and just says but she is my mom. She is no longer allowed around me or DD. I told DH that when DD is old enough to make her own decisions about her then she can see her if she wants to but I am not subjecting our daughter to some woman bad mouthing her mom. They hardest part is DH has never heard any of this besides the CPS and the paternity test. He doesn't see how smurfing rude she isall the time.


ETA The reason DH no longer really speaks with her is to avoid the confrontation when he has to tell her why DD isn't around and why he can't give her pictures of her.

Quoting I♥MyTots:" I don't hate my in-laws but I thought you ladies might enjoy this.   "

LMAO! So true!

i can just complain about my in laws right€€? doesn't just have to be MIl? i am making a mental note to come back tomorrow

WOW. I read through all of your posts and WTF. I thought I had it bad...

My SO brother asked if he could move in with us last summer. Hes 21 years old. He wanted to leave his mothers and see how it was not living with her I guess. Ugh, If I could get that time back in my life... He was absolutely disgusting to have live here. My SO would have to constantly remind him to shower, to go to work, to leave his room (he has a serious problem with video games)   My upstairs started smelling like BO because he refused to shower or wash his clothes.. I even OFFERED to wash that nasty filth. He barely kept a job, his rent here was 200$ a month... He was so use to their mother basically wiping his ass it was like dealing with a 13 year old. He started getting rude to my 2 (now 3) year old.. He would tell her to shut up and all kinds of foolishness like that..fack... I dreamed about breaking his neck .. so I told him it wasnt going to work out and he had to go back to his mothers. (I kicked him out Feb of this year   yay)


Thats not even the worse part..
My MIL decided to tell everyone the reason his brother was moving back home was because we were abusing him.. REALLY???? We apparently made him walk around in the middle of winter in the woods with no jacket and no wallet and he thought about killing himself because we were so awful. LOL. Well no one believed her because the thought of him leaving his effing room was hard to imagine in the first place. SO aunt was the one who sent us the conversation of his mother saying all of this smurf (no one in his family likes her) and she was such a bitch at the time saying that we should have never seen it, it wasnt our business..but we did and youre a bitch.

Oh I forgot to mention she called the SPCA saying that if we abused his brother we obviously abused our dogs... That was fine and good they came and checked out the dogs and they were healthy happy and kind of chunky haha.

There is so many stories and not to mention Im due with the new one next month. She is now trying to pry herself back into our lives by telling my SO that its not his fault and she was really just angry with his smurf of a partner. Lovely.

I finally chose the unborns middle names. ALLLLL my family.

Thats my rant.. Sorry if it is hard to understand, Im trying not to get distracted with my hundreds of other stories but this one is one of the cake toppers.

Quoting Cecilia&Charleigh:" WOW. I read through all of your posts and WTF. I thought I had it bad... My SO brother asked if he could ... [snip!] ... hard to understand, Im trying not to get distracted with my hundreds of other stories but this one is one of the cake toppers."

That's gross. 21 is too old to be acting like that, sounds like MIL didn't do a very good job with him.

My husband and I lived with my MIL and FIL the first year we were married. I quit my job to go to nursing school full time and we figured we would save money and not have to take out so many student loans. It was one of the biggest mistakes of my life.

They were inconsiderately loud all the time. My MIL would get on skype at 6am and literally scream at the top of her lungs like a wild Yeti in heat. FIL would come home late from work at 1am and slam the front door so loud that it would wake us both up. FIL got sick a lot. He would have the flu, a stomach bug or a terrible cold every other week. MIL would get it soon after. Neither one of them would go to the doctor. Finally, after they both had chronic, barking coughs for almost 4 weeks, my husband came down with it, I confronted them. I begged my MIL to use the dishwasher instead of using cold water in the sink to wash the dishes. I went and bought hand sanitizer and soap and nicely asked them to use it. None of it got used and neither did the dishwasher.

I woke up with a fever one morning and a bad stomach virus. My husband took me to Urgent Care and the doctor told him that we don't need to share utensils with his parents, especially if they are always sick. My husband went and bought us plastic utensils, cups, and plates. We stopped eating my MIL's food which pissed her off but at least we stopped getting sick. We also started looking for our own place and then moved.

The day I delivered my MIL mentioned that we should move back in with them. When I told her that would never, ever happen she went on to tell me that she wanted to take my son home for a few months. He was upstairs in the NICU and this bitch is acting like I'm going to smurfing hand my son over to her.

She's not allowed to touch my son without washing her hands. No smurfing excuses.

i was 21 living at home paying rent i did all my laundry and still do wash my bed sheets clean my bathroom and bed room and my son's room as a matter of fact i have like 10 loads of laundry to fold i did half of them last night saved the rest for today.

Quoting *Stix*:" That's gross. 21 is too old to be acting like that, sounds like MIL didn't do a very good job with ... [snip!] ... I'm going to smurfing hand my son over to her. She's not allowed to touch my son without washing her hands. No smurfing excuses."

Wow... Yeah we were brought up alot differently (me and my SO) his mother treats them like babies.. she had 3 boys.. and Graeme (my SO) didnt know how to use a washing machine or anything when we moved in together.. the stove they never touched because his mother made them every meal and cleaned their laundry it was sickening.. My mother on the other hand had 6 kids and raised us alone for the most part until she met my step dad when I was in my teens. We had a smurf ton of chores and had jobs by the age of 16 which was fine it made the transition into living alone and being more dependent so easy..

I could never ever ever live with my MIL... Id choke on glass before that happened.

Your whole situation with the In Laws is pretty insane, I would be so grossed out if I had to eat off of their plates and utensils. Im glad you are out of there now, instead of coming down with food poisoning or something.

My MIL asked us a little while ago who we would leave the kids to if we passed away.. Graeme knows it would be my parents hands down because I wouldnt want them to end up like his brother or like her. It makes me shudder. Plus me and my mom are so much alike it would be nice knowing someone who is alot like me would be raising them.

I hope Im not the horrid MIL with my son. HAHA.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Cecilia&Charleigh:</b>" Wow... Yeah we were brought up alot differently (me and my SO) his mother treats them like babies.. ... [snip!] ... it would be nice knowing someone who is alot like me would be raising them. I hope Im not the horrid MIL with my son. HAHA. "</blockquote>



My MIL is the same way. She flaunts the fact that her kids have always gotten what they wanted no mater what. My husband had never worked a day in his life until he got his first job at 28. His sister also didn't work until she was 28. Both have college degrees they completed in their early twenties.

I don't plan on being hard on my son but I want him to have responsibilities. I don't think giving a kid every single thing they beg for is doing them any favors.

Quoting Addi's Momma:" My MIL is a psycho. There is much to say. She called CPS on me last year for allegedly molesting my daughter. ... [snip!] ... got what you wanted." I cried all the way home. There are so many more stories. I just don't have time to type them all out.,"

Wow, your BIL sounds a lot like my BIL. He is 21, is overweight which wouldn't be horrible IF he would shower more than twice a month! He sits on his ass getting stoned all day and plays video games for atleast 10 hours a day, but don't be fooled, the other six hours is spent either looking at porn, watching tv, or playing on the computer. He's also extremely rude to my oldest son, he tells him that he's a "bad boy" and to "shut up" and if he does anything to annoy him he yells at him.

My MIL wants to raise my kids if I or DH and I die. Pffft! Yeah right! I'm not giving her a chance to ruin two more children! Although, my husband has come leaps and bounds from where he was and is not nearly as spoiled as he used to be, I still have to remind him that I'm NOT his mother and if he wants one he can always go visit her and come back when he's done with his tantrum   lol.

My moms most likely going to bitch i have a feeling CPS is going to get called my DD fell of my bed and hit her head on my metal frame i took her to the ER and they did a ct and it was fine... I felt so bad.