re: I HATE my MIL club/thread!

<blockquote><b>Quoting Mylie + Taryn:</b>" Oh I love this thread. What about future MIL's? SO and I are getting marriend in 44 days. My mom has ... [snip!] ... want her at our wedding or bridal shower to open up spots so she can invite people she wants there. She is driving me crazy."</blockquote>




What the mother smurf?

Who wants their MIL at their bachelorette party?

Part 3 to my EX MIL vent.

I was more then 1/2 way through my pregnancy. (This is after I learned my baby wasn't going to survive, so you can imagine I was already pretty stressed).

I was babysitting a little girl. I can't remember the age exactly, but she was at the age where she was in the beginning stages of rolling over. Poor thing was also teething, so she was very cranky as well.

I was holding her in the bedroom for about an hour before she had finally gone to sleep.

Loserface (ex husband) comes into the bedroom to tell me his mother set up a bed for Ciara (Sierra) on the couch. I said, "Oh that was nice of her, thank you."
So I take her out to the living room to find a chair propped up in front of a spot on the couch. With the back of the chair pushed against the couch. Where a blanket hadn't even been laid down to cover up the layers of dog hair on the spot she expected me to put this baby. The dog was a husky mix, so you can imagine it's a lot of hair.

Very calmly, I told my MIL I would feel more comfortable if the baby had more cushion to roll into (Just in case) rather then the back of a wooden chair. She raised her voice and told me she had been doing this a lot longer then me, and I didn't know what I was talking about. Her voice woke the baby.

I ignored the attitude and focused on Ciara. It took me another 30 minutes to get her to sleep, and when I did, ex MIL says, "Here Sheree, go ahead and lay her down now."

So I tell her in a calm (not alarming voice), "Brenda, I would feel more comfortable if there was more cushion, I am not laying her down in front of a chair."

Oh boy did she flip. "I HAVE BEEN DOING THIS FOR A LONG TIME, YOU DON'T KNOW NOTHING, I KNOW HOW TO RAISE MY KIDS AND ALL YOU EVER DO IS CALL ME A BAD MOTHER." She left the room.

  My thoughts, "No, if I would have ever called you a bad mother, I think I would have remembered it." In some stupid way it would have been a spotlight moment for me.  

Then my husband starts in on me, "NOW LOOK WHAT YOU SmUrfING DONE, ARE YOU HAPPY? HOW ARE YOU SUPPOSE TO DO IT OH WISE ONE."

I would be lying if I said I wasn't slightly proud of myself.

Poor Ciara, wide awake again, and no one to hold her while she cried. Sadly I was the only one who could calm her.

"Here, hold the baby, try not to be angry while you do so. This is what I would do. Since your mother's favorite spot she expected me to lay baby down is indented (severely) it's going to take much more then a couple of pillows."

After working with what space I had for 10 minutes I finally had it perfect. I couldn't contain myself when I said, "Wow, that wasn't hard at all. Then again to do what I just did it requires getting off of your ass."

***poof***

With the aroma of dinner in the air, I think of another "I hate my ex MIL moment."

Beginning of January 2006. 6 weeks prior to delivering, 12 weeks prior to my due date.

I had prepared this HUGE dinner. By huge, I mean Pot Roast, cooked veggies, mashed potatoes & Gravy, Crescent rolls. I went all out and spent the entire day in the kitchen.

We all sat down to enjoy the meal. Well all was peachy everyone was getting along great (No tension, nothing).

Well after about 4 or 5 servings of dinner, my ex MIL puts down her eating utensils. You know, her Pitchfork and shovel. Looks me dead in the eye and said, "OK, let me tell you what you did wrong."

My response, "4-5 servings apparently the only thing I did wrong was I didn't make enough."

Quoting dzrtangel:" With the aroma of dinner in the air, I think of another "I hate my ex MIL moment." Beginning of January ... [snip!] ... me tell you what you did wrong." My response, "4-5 servings apparently the only thing I did wrong was I didn't make enough.""

LMAO

Well apparently I am a smurffy ass mom now............. MIL has been staying with BIL and watching his kids until school starts back. Well last night she calls me on my cell phone and asks for my other BIL. I take him the phone thinking she couldn't get him on his cell, after he gets off the phone with her he calls me back into his room. He then proceeds to tell me that BIL and his wife had overheard some one talking to some one about turning DH and I in to CPS for leaving our 2 year old and 6 month old in the vehicle alone in the 100 degree weather we have been having while we go shopping. I have the sneaking suspicion that it either originated from MIL's smurfed up mind or she is the one that did the report, I am not too worried about it though because I know it is not true. I just think it is smurfed up that she would do something like that. I have never in my life left a child in a vehicle alone whether hot or cold. I have never abused my kids ever and this bitch is just pissing me off for even hinting around that I do. Also DH has an Aunt that works in that department and she said that if it were even halfway true that a report had been made then we would have heard about it already because that is not something they play around with. I will be so freaking glad with she moves out for good so we can have our house back

so my aunt-in-law (MIL's half sister)is having a babyshower today
so im sure ill have nice long drama tonight when i get home

well maybe my MIL wasnt invited my aunt despises MIL almost as much as me

My MIL wont offer to even pay for our gas to go out there when she needs us even if we tell her we dont have the money....

I offered her places that do low income housing she is loosing her house thanks to her husband there in a divorce. She told me NO because there in the bad part of town.

I live in a nicer part of town my mom pays over 1000 for rent so we can live here and my van was stolen  ....

My mom will be paying for Christmas and my son birthday.

I just lost my unemployment and SO has to have knee surgery. She wants to take them but i wont let my DD go because she smokes and my DS is potty training.... My DD was born with 2 holes in her heart and i know if DS speech therapy is on a day she has him she wont take him because its to far.


If i need any money or a bit of help my family is always there but not his.

I feel like sometimes he is using me knowing my family on my dad's side is rich.

My grandmother just paid for the van to get fixed and my dad paid for half of the van for my birthday.

Okay im done..

Here's my mom now because he thinks she is the MIL from HELL.

My mom wont talk to him.

She always bitches at me and if she needs something she always calls me, and then if i ask SO to do it he says she ask you to do it.... YAH BECAUSE SHE WONT ASK U!

We fought about taking the trash out the rocking chair that needs fixed ect. The list could go on.

I was told because we live here free we should be willing to do everything.

I was told i couldnt go to dinner because it was not fair that she pays all the bills and never goes out   ....

When she has money she goes to the bar with her friend and she always has liquor in the house. Ummmm that same money u spend on that i used to go to dinner.

Hell has frozen over.

I've agreed to let the sewer monster babysit tonight so my husband and I can go have dinner alone. We are in desperate need of some alone time, more him than me.

I am so not in the mood to even look at this bitch.

Quoting MyCruseBoys!:" <blockquote><b>Quoting ♥Frodolicious♥:</b>" For those of us with REALLY ... [snip!] ... with with there mother inlaw trying to make you feel like your baby likes her more, or shed be a better mother than you are?"

Yes!!!!!

my mom is worse then my MIL


I got yelled at because i spilled my dinner on the floor even after i told her i would clean it..

SO ended up cleaning it up.

Then my son fell outside wile he was with my mom and his nose is all swollen and bruised and painful and tender, and i was told if i keep taking him the ER ill get CPS called on me, because there was a women here in lakeland who had CPS called on her for taking her daughter back and forth to the ER... I think theres more to that story...

But they could call CPS on me for not taking him....

So I get home after leaving my son with MIL all afternoon so DH and I could go have dinner. I get home and she has my son face down in the folds of her nasty ass neck asleep. I ask her to give him to me and she says no.

Had my husband not stepped in and removed my son from her arms I would have gone nuts on her. I was so pissed.

I know she messed with him the entire time because after she left he was super over stimulated. She got all offended because I asked her to please wash her hands and not to wipe him back to front when she changes him. She kept saying "Why you no believe me, I know right way to take care of baby."

Ummmm, no the smurf you don't. My son is not one of your babies that you had 30 years ago in a remote Eastern European village. Smurf is drastically different now and MY way is the right way.

Kick rocks, bitch.

Ugh...My MIL is so childish!
She deleted and blocked me (which, the only reason I added her is so she could see pictures of her grandson) on Fb. lmao! Bitch is cray, cray....

I don't hate my in-laws but I thought you ladies might enjoy this.  

<blockquote><b>Quoting I♥MyTots:</b>" I don't hate my in-laws but I thought you ladies might enjoy this.   "</blockquote>




Lmfao   I love this one