what do u think?

So my husband and I have this married couple that we were super close to before a new guy came in my husbands squad and they became really close and it was natural that I got close with the new guys wife so then we always hang out with the new married couple friends we had cuz we along so well with each other and we interact and do things together as for the other couple we sit there and watch the husband play his video games and listen to him bitch at his wife to get him this or that like shes his slave and he always tells my husband to buy him alcohol so he can get drunk. Well when we started hanging out with the new couple the other ones started to bitch and complain and what not and it was super annoyin they are grown adults not lil kids.

Well they invited us over this weekend and I really dont wanna go there cuz all were going to do is sit there and watch the husband play video games and everyone will be gettin drunk and I prlly will be expected to watch the baby cuz everyone is drunk. I dont wanna be around drunk people and be bored it dont sound fun to me, so my husband gets mad cuz I dont wanna go but I told him he can go and he said he will and I said okay then and then he gets mad just cause I dont wanna go.

Is it that a really big deal to get mad at me over it? Im sorry but if I wanna sit there and be bored and watch someone play video games why not stay at home and have my husband play video games? Plus I dont wanna hear my husbands friend ask him to buy beer and then get pissy cuz my husband dont wanna get drunk with them cuz he rather be sober with me thats another thing he bitches about along with his wife not doing everything he wants. He hates that when he asks me husband to get drunk and my husband says no he says why not and my husband says cuz of the wife and then he gives me this dirty look and then monday morning he tells everyone at work that I have my husband whipped no I dont...He chooses to drink when he wants he just rather not cuz hes a NICE HUSBAND.

what do you think?

i know exactly how you feel. And i totally agree with you. You are not being unreasonable.

I wouldnt want to go either. That guy sounds like a freakin ass!

Quoting Katy Jo:“ I wouldnt want to go either. That guy sounds like a freakin ass!”

Thats just some of it. Heis a complete asshole and I hate being around him.

Quoting redhott5537:“ i know exactly how you feel. And i totally agree with you. You are not being unreasonable.”

I didnt think either and then my husband said "if i were to ask you to go over *our new couple friends house* you be ready in a heartbeat and I said well thats cuz when we go over there we do thing ALL together not all sit and watch one person play video games. We actully interact with each other nobody is left out. Where the other husband he likes to leave the wives out of everything..its not cool.