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I would be upset as well. Doesn't seem like she's very committed.

But then again, is it an actual relationship? Does she consider you her girlfriend, or does she just see you as someone she casually dates, kwim?

That would annoy me, also. But since the relationship is fairly new, I'd honestly just back off and do my own thing for a while. She doesn't seem very into it. If she wants to hang out with you, she will. If not.. don't waste your time getting hurt over it.

That's just me, though.

Also, you are gorgeous!

Quoting Joe&Bria's ℳomma:" I would be upset as well. Doesn't seem like she's very committed. But then again, is it an actual relationship? ... [snip!] ... it an actual relationship? Does she consider you her girlfriend, or does she just see you as someone she casually dates, kwim?"

Yea its an actual relationship. We made it official. Told our parents.. and she definitely doesnt see it casual. So i dont understand  

I'm sorry. I would be hurt by that too. I know about 2 weeks ago you posted something about how people were giving her a hard time for dating a woman. Could that be part of the issue?

Quoting danica  :" That would annoy me, also. But since the relationship is fairly new, I'd honestly just back off and do ... [snip!] ... it. If she wants to hang out with you, she will. If not.. don't waste your time getting hurt over it. That's just me, though."

Thats how I feel also.
i dont want to be always put in the back burner you know

Quoting wilde_mommy:" I'm sorry. I would be hurt by that too. I know about 2 weeks ago you posted something about how people were giving her a hard time for dating a woman. Could that be part of the issue?"

I dont know. She says she's totally fine with the comments. I just dont know if she's scared or what  

Quoting Joe&Bria's ℳomma:" Also, you are gorgeous!"

Thank you baby !

Yes that's annoying.

I see it as well. I understand that it's a very young relationship, and you two are still figuring each other out. But it does seem kind of smurfed up (at least to me, anyway) that she is constantly finding reasons not to spend time with you. Maybe you guys should try taking a break for a while, and she needs to look at what's going on, and if this relationship is what she really wants. Have you asked her that?

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Hm. Yeah, I don't know. Maybe she's not the type that likes to spend alot of time with someone? Or maybe she really just wants to see her roommate alot before she leaves? They're probably really good friends, maybe she's upset.

Sounds like since all the hangouts are late at night she may be just in it for the nookie? I'd back off & do your own thing, let her chase you for a while and see what happens then.

Could she have or had something going on with the roommate? It sounds like her roommate is jealous of you.

hmm sounds odd. what is the background with her and her roomie?
why does her roomie not want to interact with you, too?


id be alittle weirded out by her going back to sleep over at her house, its not like its hangout time. hangout time was the movie, and she gave that up. maybe her roomate is causing tention and she is not telling you about it because when roomie leaves it wont be an issue and she feels guilt tripped now.


keep in mind she isnt leaving forever...