Quoting Charlie's Lovely Mommy:" Last night I went over my friend's house, to stay the night after I went to their concert. They're in ... [snip!] ... that we were dating, and that we were kissing and what not. I feel like I cheated. I feel so scummy. I'm a piece of smurf."
I'll say this... my SO and I were bed buddies for awhile. Then we stopped, and became really good friends. I was utterly in freaking love with him for YEARS. Then one day I was all "I can't do this, I love you, it's all or nothing!"
In 2 weeks it will be 5 years we have been together. 8 years on and off. Though lately he's been an ass :p (He really needs to get his smurf together). But hey.... things can happen and YOU guys can happen!!!! I NEVER thought we would be together, he was all "We are just friends!" and then finally he realized he loved me too after I consoled him when a smurf broke his heart and he said he could tell it ripped me apart to do so, but was doing it because I was doing what was best for him
I wish he still had that love for me though.... god he's been so mean lately! Oh... and I did cheat on an ex with him. I don't regret WHO I cheated on my ex with, but I do regret hurting him.