couple of sex questions TMI

1.) I never ever ever EVER want sex anymore. I used to want it all the time (explains the unplanned pregnancy)   Anyways, I force myself about once a week to have sex. When he first puts "it" in, it hurts. It feels like I'm losing my virginity for the first 2 minutes. Then I'll get used to it, but it NEVER feels as good as it used to. After about 3-5 minutes of sex, it starts burning!!! I don't have any infections, I was recently checked. Is this normal? What causes it to hurt??

2.) This is WAY too much information so bare with me. We all know that now that were pregnant, condoms arent used. Okay so after you're man cums in you, how do you get it ALL out? Usually most of it will come out of me right after but then the next day, theres still some coming out. I know, really gross!

That's part of being pregnant! Your hormones are out of wack right now. Some women get CRAZY horny while others it dwindles. You just happen to be in the latter group. It might also start to burn because you arent lubricated enough down there.

The same exact thing happens to me, it I dont want it, and it always hurts at first. Sometimes I even have to stop because it just doesnt get better.


And go to the bathroom right when your done, I do and I have never had anything come out the next day... but I havent had anything come out the next day even when I dont go to the bathroom afterwards?

well for question #1 it burning because pregnancy, messing with your hormones, makes you dryer.  so use lube and the burning will stop.  unless you use the warming  lube.  then the burning will continue.  i hate that stuff.
#2 there's no way to get it all out.  you have to wait.  it sucks and feels gross.  but i'd still trade places with you.  12 weeks and counting no sex for me b.c of a HORRIBLE episiotomy.

/cry

Don't worry, I'm right there with you! Ithurts for me too and thats prolly why I don't reallywant to have sex. It burns for me too and I dont have any infections...weird huh? I dont know why that is. It all comes out of me right after..its so nasty...it feels like im a water faucet or something! haha. i dnt know why that is...it seems to be getting better tho...especially since my boyfriend has been out of town! I miss him so much and cant wait for him to come home! 

Lots of lube!!!!
I'm not interested in sex either but I do it for my bf and the lube is a life saver!!

I had that problem (with the hurting and burning) for a few weeks a while ago...then it got better and it feels just fine again!! I was upset about it, I thought we wouldn't be able to have sex again until weeks and weeks after the baby...but it got better. I have no idea what was going on!

yea, why not try a little lube and maybe he needs to get you a little more... warmed up.... As for the second ?... i have no idea since a duche isn't a good idea in pregnancy (or ever really).



I never want sex either but then when we get going it is really great. The next time i never want it again. I don't understand myself.

I'm only 12 weeks, but i'm finding everything there is WAY more sensitive than it used to be. And i find (hehe, yeah yeah... tmi, but this whole thread is so too bad!) that the more lube you use, the more wet everything is, the less you really feel it. So lube VERY liberally to help take the edge off the sensitivity.

And really- when you buy lube, if possible, test it on your finger. Does it go sticky after a few seconds on your finger? Well, it'll go sticky other places too...And then you're stuck in the reapply cycle (depending on how quick your man is, ha.)

I have like no sex drive anymore.I am one of those "ladder girls" sometimes i will feel like it and sometimes i won't.Sometimes i just do it to keep my boyfriend happy, because they have needs to.Just like everyone else it does hurt at first, and it doesn't feel as it good as it used to. I am guessing because it more dry down there now.I always pee afterwards but nothing comes out the next days. I don't know what that is from.maybe it's normal.

I've had problems with it hurting but never burning..But i know a lot of poeple have had the burning.

As far as getting it all out of you...this is gross i know but I just go to the restroom afterwards and i sit there for a little bit and I tend to just relax myself and just wait..and a umm a cum ball falls out..i know its gross.

I remember in HS reading some book where the girl had sex for the first time and had trouble with cum dripping down her thighs after.

I just sit up after sex, and wipe with a kleenex after a few seconds. Seems to clean it all out.

lol this is a little much but owell ill help ya on your sex life lol .. make sure you are completely ready for it - like foreplay before ya know, i have the same prob if im not really wanting it! make him do some work lol ..

Quoting Excepting a lil boy!!:“ I've had problems with it hurting but never burning..But i know a lot of poeple have had the burning. ... [snip!] ... i sit there for a little bit and I tend to just relax myself and just wait..and a umm a cum ball falls out..i know its gross.”

lol i cracked up for about 5 min on this way but same here lol.