re: SAHM...Just curious...

<blockquote><b>Quoting Puff the Magic Dragon!:</b>"    Ahh, maybe mine wont when their 9. They hate clothing... Which is odd, i am always fully clothed. They don't like socks either..  "</blockquote>




Lol noone even owns socks here haha. The other day when my dad watched them he was like wheres their socks? I was like uh we never wear socks. We love to be barefoot or wear flats

Quoting nutmeg.:" If you stay home and your hubby goes to work, does he say anything about still being in your pj's when he gets home?"

Nope. He doesn't even ask where his dinner is. He asks how my day was and based on my expression, he will send me to my room or ask if I need help. lol

Quoting Puff the Magic Dragon!:"    Ahh, maybe mine wont when their 9. They hate clothing... Which is odd, i am always fully clothed. They don't like socks either..  "

Don't get me started, 9yr old will try to sneak off without socks

Quoting nutmeg.:" If you stay home and your hubby goes to work, does he say anything about still being in your pj's when he gets home?"

I usually change and try to make my self look decent before he gets home but on the occasion that he catches me still in my pjs he messes with me about it-in a joking way. But if our roles were switched and I was the one going to work then I think it might be a turn off to come home EVERYDAY to him in his pjs. That may be wrong of me but it's the truth.

Quoting Lacey LaPlante:" If we are staying home me & DD stay in our pjs, or her just a diaper! She can't stand getting dressed ... [snip!] ... 30 mins before the babies you could take a quick shower and spend a few minutes to fix your hair and put on a little make-up!"

Lol! To get a shower, teeth brushed, face washed, make up on and hair blown dry, about 45 mins. We all co-sleep so I don't feel comfortable leaving my 3 yr old in the bed with my 7 month old unattended and if I wanted to try to shower before DH leaves in the morning I would have to get up at like 4AM-that ain't happening!  

Quoting nutmeg.:" If you stay home and your hubby goes to work, does he say anything about still being in your pj's when he gets home?"

No he wouldn't dare!
He can only manage to hold the baby in his lap and watch the 3 yr old from a distance when left alone while I run an errand or such.
I manage to clean the entire house everyday, make meals, etc, so I think he understands why I'm still in PJ's because he can't do squat else when he has them both alone...

Quoting Pepsigrl:" When you have nothing planned on a particular day like doctors appts, errands to run, do you get your ... [snip!] ... to really get down about my apperance. I hardly ever put make up on now and I'm lucky to shower by the end of the night."

I dress my boys everyday after they eat breakfast and brush their teeth. They take a bath every night. Myself, I shower every night before bed and blow dry my hair. In the morning, if im going somewhere running errands ect. I will get dressed, throw some make up on, and run straightner threw my hair while my kids are eatting. If we are not going anywhere that day, I still get dressed but I will just throw on some cotton shorts and a tank, no make up.

Quoting SweetAshMama:" I usually change and try to make my self look decent before he gets home but on the occasion that he ... [snip!] ... work then I think it might be a turn off to come home EVERYDAY to him in his pjs. That may be wrong of me but it's the truth."

See! That's what I think to myself about DH...
When we first met all the way up to the birth of our first daughter, I would have make up on everyday and be dressed. He doesn't say anything negative about it but I know he must feel like he gets tired of seeing me all frumpy looking all the time now...

Quoting Pepsigrl:" See! That's what I think to myself about DH... When we first met all the way up to the birth of our ... [snip!] ... say anything negative about it but I know he must feel like he gets tired of seeing me all frumpy looking all the time now..."

I guess it also depends how long you guys have been in a relationship. Me and the hubby have known each other since high school. We dated for 5 years before we got married and we've been married 10 years (11 next month). We also have 3 little kids and my boobs are hanging out most of the time because the baby is breastfeeding. lol Motherhood isn't pretty! Maybe Dh cares that I'm not bothered that my clothes aren't orderly, but I am too busy to notice. We still have sex a couple of times a week so it can't bother him that much!  

Yes, because even when I PLAN to have a lazy day (usually 1-2 Sundays a month) something almost always comes up, and we leave the house.

We dont get lazy days during with week with DD's activities and especially not during the school year.

I never dress Peyton in an actual outfit unless we are going somewhere. Otherwise he's in a t-shirt or onesie at home.   I would let him run around in just a diaper but he has a paci clip that he HAS to have attached to him so I have to keep a shirt on him at the very least. I used to dress him everyday no matter if we were going somewhere or not but I learned quickly it was just more laundry for me, especially if he spit up or had a blow out.

Quoting Summerfrost:" I guess it also depends how long you guys have been in a relationship. Me and the hubby have known each ... [snip!] ... aren't orderly, but I am too busy to notice. We still have sex a couple of times a week so it can't bother him that much!   "

Been with DH for 12 yrs, we meet when I was 19, been marrid for 4 yrs.
I'm sure he is telling the truth when he says it doesn't bother him, even on the days I do get a chance to look nice(shower and make up)he can't tell the difference, lol.
It's more me than anything, I'm just not happy with my apperance.

Thanks ladies!

DD and I usually stay in our pj's untill noon-1 ish then its shower time and we get dressed i comb her hair then i put a cartoon on for her while i do my make up and hair. Once in a while we have lazy days and dont change but its rare.

I feel bad if i dont change i feel like. A lazy butt DH could care less so i do it more for myself.