re: Would it make me a bad person

Quoting Devil's Advocate:" I'm assuming you are no longer with the person you TTC'd with? If you don't want to do it alone, there is no shame in abortion at all. Do what is best for YOU. This is your choice."

yeah he left me this morning. he said he was just going hru the motions with no emotions attached

Quoting V's Mom! [EXPECTING #2!]:" yeah he left me this morning. he said he was just going hru the motions with no emotions attached"

That's heartbreaking. I am so sorry   I am here if you need someone.

Quoting Devil's Advocate:" That's heartbreaking. I am so sorry   I am here if you need someone."

Thank you. im pretty lost right now, especially because we talked about me quitting my job to be a SAHM, which is what i did. i quit my job. idk if i have the resources anymore to take care of this baby. i love it so much already but i dont even know if im going to be able to survive with DD now.

Quoting V's Mom! [EXPECTING #2!]:" yeah he left me this morning. he said he was just going hru the motions with no emotions attached"

he might be getting cold feet too. i know its hard & I am sorry things are like this for you

Quoting V's Mom! [EXPECTING #2!]:" Thank you. im pretty lost right now, especially because we talked about me quitting my job to be ... [snip!] ... to take care of this baby. i love it so much already but i dont even know if im going to be able to survive with DD now."

Your child now is your only obligation. I wish you the best of luck with your decision.

Quoting V's Mom! [EXPECTING #2!]:" Thank you. im pretty lost right now, especially because we talked about me quitting my job to be ... [snip!] ... to take care of this baby. i love it so much already but i dont even know if im going to be able to survive with DD now."

I live in Cali and I can tell you that there are SO many resources and programs out there that will help you with your situation. You just have to look, I promise it's not impossible. You WILL make it thru this, regardless of your decision.

Quoting V's Mom! [EXPECTING #2!]:" Thank you. im pretty lost right now, especially because we talked about me quitting my job to be ... [snip!] ... to take care of this baby. i love it so much already but i dont even know if im going to be able to survive with DD now."

Oh no! I am so sorry that he did this to you. I would just really consider all the options you have or what you feel is right to do with your pregnancy. If you ever want to talk or just vent I will listen.

Not at all. --- If you feel deep down that this is the right thing for you to do, then do it.

That doesn't make you a bad person at all. You have to do what's best for your situation whatever that may be. I wish you the best with your decision.

No, that wouldnt make you a bad person. Best of luck to you.

No it would not make you a bad person. You had no idea when you were TTC that things would turn out the way they are now. Think it over and decide what is best for you and your child. I read through your last post. I'm so sorry that your ex did that to you. He left you in a very difficult position.  

Quoting Crystal Mom of 4:" No it would not make you a bad person. You had no idea when you were TTC that things would turn out the ... [snip!] ... child. I read through your last post. I'm so sorry that your ex did that to you. He left you in a very difficult position.  "

yeah he did... im giving myself a week to think this over... i will have my decision done by the end of next week.. i dont have too much time left to think about it, so i know i need to be quick but thorough with my decision.

Quoting V's Mom! [EXPECTING #2!]:" yeah he did... im giving myself a week to think this over... i will have my decision done by the end ... [snip!] ... of next week.. i dont have too much time left to think about it, so i know i need to be quick but thorough with my decision."

BG will always be here to support you with either decision. Good luck.

i know what you're going through is rough but if you want the baby then keep the baby.. i've had an abortion (before having my girls) and it's very hard emotionally especially if you want the baby... it's been 7 years and it's still a very sensitive subject.. i'm not trying talk you out of an abortion but i just want you to think about it before you truly decide  

you and V should move down here and we can have a forever play date.. hahaha

Quoting jorrie:" i know what you're going through is rough but if you want the baby then keep the baby.. i've had an abortion ... [snip!] ... you to think about it before you truly decide   you and V should move down here and we can have a forever play date.. hahaha"

That would be awesome. i would definitely need a job though lol.. i hate not being able to provide..

i really need to get away from here. maybe i will look for a job down south.