Does this sign make my butt look big?(vent)

Ok, seriously I'm just venting here, but what the heck is up with people taking advantage of me?
Do I wear a sign that says "I like it without lube" or something?? That is totally how I feel!!
First its my housekeeper who once again has been taking things without permission, making a lot of long distance phone calls, telling me that she only needs to call the Dr so of course I say yes and give her some privacy.....stupid me.... to not wanting to clean things that I specifically want done or doing a half butt job and still getting paid for a full day's work that she seriously didnt do!
Now I'm coming back to Ohio from Egypt and my best friends sister in law, whom I've known for years but mostly through passing, asked me if I would bring her back some things(Egypt is her home country) and when I said yes, I expected like a shopping bag full of stuff to put into a suitcase, then she gets all happy and says well it will fit into your suitcase.
WTH today I go to my Mother in Laws house to meet her brother and get the stuff, and I brought the suitcase to put it in...... Lo and behold its over 50lbs worth of stuff, and not things for her and her kids from their grandparent like what I thought, this is stuff that she is going to sell!!!!
To make matter worse, everytime my husband has asked them to bring us back something or to take something with them here, he has always paid them no less than $50 and that is for a BAG, likea shopping bag that might weigh 10lbs if that....She hasn't offered to pay for anything, and this is 1 and a half suitcases we're talking about!!!
Also, I stand the chance of having to actually collect my own luggage in NY to get them onto the other plane, I'll be almost 36 weeks pregnant and have 4 children with me!!!!!
What kind of a person does that to somebody????

AHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH I'm soooo miffed right now....

Hope this sign is in black so that my butt doesn't look to big.......

Ahhh haha. I'm sorry Niq...that really does suck. Tell her you'll ship the junk to her and she can pay the bill. Screw that! You need a bellhop to carry your stuff...any of the kids old enough to lug it all around?

screw that. I'd leave her crap there. her family can send it to her...

that is the worst. Kyle's sister takes advantage of us all the time. I hate it when he does things for her because she never does anythign for us.

I mean I love her but she can be very selfish.

Quoting Maddy&Dylan's Mommy:“ screw that. I'd leave her crap there. her family can send it to her...”

That's pretty much what my friend said, she's like pack like three or four dresses in a suitcase for her and tell her that was all that you could carry..... I'm such a sucker for saying yes........

LOLOL

I am sorry.

Your post made me laugh.

the first part did anyway.

the rest made me want to tell you to er...forget to bring the bag with you.

 

Quoting PhillyGirl:“ Ahhh haha. I'm sorry Niq...that really does suck. Tell her you'll ship the junk to her and she can pay ... [snip!] ... and she can pay the bill. Screw that! You need a bellhop to carry your stuff...any of the kids old enough to lug it all around?”

My oldest is 11 and he already is looking forward to the rolling suitcases lol, I just can't believe that its going to be two for their stuff and she's not going to even offer to pay for it....

lol that's arabs for ya  ~ they do that wherever you go ...

Quoting Maddy&Dylan's Mommy:“ screw that. I'd leave her crap there. her family can send it toEher...”

AGREE!!

Yeah I dunno about that Niq.. I'd be honest and tell her I have enough things to carry around w/o taking along an extra piece of luggage.. It's called UPS for real.. How dare she try and take advantage of a pregnant mother of 4!!   . I'd just plain refuse to do it if I were you..

And my maid doesn't sound as disrespectful as that to be taking stuff and making expensive phonecalls but she has been getting on my nerves a helluva lot more since being pregnant.. It's like her commonsense switch has a malfunction.. Soooo pissed that I spent all of yesterday going through all the bathrooms in this place, scrubbing toilets and cleaning out sink drains cause she's too lazy to actually SCRUB with the green part of a sponge.. I honestly don't know what she does in the bathrooms when she's in them but it sure as hell isn't cleaning!

That and this woman can't properly clean a rug to save her life.. :S Grr! Do you guys have a live-in too or is she just a day maid? I'd drop her like a bad habit if she's taking stuff tho'.. No bueno.

Quoting ~*~HautéMama~*~:“ Yeah I dunno about that Niq.. I'd be honest and tell her I have enough things to carry around w/o taking ... [snip!] ... Do you guys have a live-in too or is she just a day maid? I'd drop her like a bad habit if she's taking stuff tho'.. No bueno.”

She's daily, I had her cut from daily to three times a day because it was a moot point to have her here daily when she wasn't really doing anything, and my husband was here and she really got on his nerves trying to kiss his booty, He'd hibernate in our room or on our bedroom patio and smoke and drink tea lol
My SIL had me keep her until we leave but I have to watch her every minute she is here, pain in the rump!!!! Now since she was here last time I have't been able to find my camera, and she didn't show up today!!!! Talk about peeved!!
11 more days and I'm flying out of here.....I can't wait!!!!!