My FIL is really pissing me off!

Quoting *MommyMel0dy* [35 weeks]:“ So I plan on being a SAHM for at LEAST the first year or 2 or even longer if possible. I just want to ... [snip!] ... my husband doesnt want or need me to work right now so I think that's all that matters. Some people just really amaze me.”

ur FIL is rly outta order! it sounds like he has NO idea what it's gunna be like for u after u have ur baby. im sure he's not too old to work, maybe u should ask him why HE isnt working

ignore you FIL.. He sounds like an ass. Men just dont understand what having a baby does to our bodies..
on another note.. you're due on my birthday  

Quoting babysarahjayne:“ ur FIL is rly outta order! it sounds like he has NO idea what it's gunna be like for u after u have ur baby. im sure he's not too old to work, maybe u should ask him why HE isnt working”

His wife works, and he sits around the house and collects disability. He's fine! I mean he had some back problems but this man is walking around, walking the dogs,going out shopping, out to eat, I mean just living the good life! I just don't understand why if he wants me to get a job so bad, that he can't take time out of his "busy schedule" to watch his grandchild for a few hours? And then to say it's "too much work"? Oh really?? WORK? So he's saying I'd have 2 jobs? Hmmm, someone needs to keep their mouth shut!!

Yeah im with ya all the way my FIL is a bastard and tries to tell us how to spend our money and use our money and shit he thinks its his freaking money. Im like oh no and trust me we have had our spats before cause i would take his crap for a long time then when i was prego with the second child he put me in the hosptail from all the stress and from that day on i said no more i wont do it. Now since i stood up to him he wont talk shit around me anymore cause he know i will back talk him. I think maybe you should try that it worked for me lol.

Quoting momofthree1523:“ Yeah im with ya all the way my FIL is a bastard and tries to tell us how to spend our money and use our ... [snip!] ... he wont talk shit around me anymore cause he know i will back talk him. I think maybe you should try that it worked for me lol.”

Yea, I just didn't want to be disrespectfull, but after I left, I was like, well he was disrespectful to me!? I can only take so much, if he continues I think I might just snap one day and totally go off on him!!

Quoting *MommyMel0dy* [35 weeks]:“ Yea, I just didn't want to be disrespectfull, but after I left, I was like, well he was disrespectful ... [snip!] ... disrespectful to me!? I can only take so much, if he continues I think I might just snap one day and totally go off on him!!”

Yeah well i didnt disrepect him till he did that and trust me i dont back talk adults my mom taught me better than that. But shit he has called me just a slut that got prego to trap his son WTF ever. After that i didnt care i have threated to call the cops on him ANd trust me if he comes over here and starts trouble i will he will watch me do it. I have no shame in sending him to jail. So yeah i say put him in his place.