Quoting ♥rawr:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Sara Go:</b>" Well, he IS the one with a penis. My DH said the ... [snip!] ... of it as "weird unnecessary flap". It was born on him and I don't think it needs to be removed just because some people do."
You certainly have a right to your opinion-- and so does your husband. The bad part, is that it could end up in a big argument if you guys can't come to an agreement.
Is there anyone in real life that you could talk to more about it? Your mom, his mom, etc... that might be able to help? Ultimately it's up to you guys, but you really need to come to an agreement.