I had my first miscarriage yesterday

I had my first Ob Gyn appointment yesterday and after a pap smear there was some bleeding. She asked me if I had been bleeding before, but I had not. When she done the Ultrasound there was no heartbeat. I was a mess!

She sent me to the hospital for another Ultrasound to confirm it. I was almost 10 weeks pregnant, but was told that the growth showed only 7 weeks. At 7 weeks I was at another doctor and they showed me the heartbeat? So it must have stopped growing a few days after.

I was supposed to have a D&C today, but I passed it all last night.

To say that I am depressed is an understatement - I am sorry but that's all I have to say.

oh i'm so sorry  

I'm so sorry for your loss.

Thanks. Are you from Ireland?

Oh im so sorry for your lost!!!

Hand in there, so sorry that happened to you.

im sorry to hear that  

Quoting JoeyBelfast:“ I had my first Ob Gyn appointment yesterday and after a pap smear there was some bleeding. She asked ... [snip!] ... but I passed it all last night. To say that I am depressed is an understatement - I am sorry but that's all I have to say.”

  Thats awful hun. I am so sorry that you have to endure that, no one should ever have to deal with that. But I believe in God, and that everything happens for a reason. Hang in there! If you ever need to talk, let me know.

I am so sorry to hear about what happened. That's awful that you and your family have to go through that! I wish you luck!

I'm so sorry =( With my first miscarriage I made the mistake of hiding it from everyone. I was so lonely and depressed and would cry for anything. Once I finally opened up to the people I cared about, I felt much better and was able to start healing. Seek out the support you need! (not just from BG) =) Good luck hun.

Awww....sorry to hear about your loss. I had the same thing happen. I found out about my m/c on May 2nd. I went in for my first OB appointment on April 21st which I thought was around my 8 week mark, and the doctor couldn't find the baby with a vaginal ultrasound. I had a pelvic ultrasound later that day and they were able to find the babies heartbeat and it measured at only 6 wks and 3 days. One week after that ultrasound I started heavily bleeding and clotting and I went to the ER, and they did another ultrasound and the baby was fine. I bled on and off that whole week, then on Friday I woke up and passed another clot. At my appointment that day they confirmed there was nothing left in the sac   I still have my moments when I will tear up, but I know that I will have another chance hopefully in the near future.

Im so very sorry for your loss  

Quoting JoeyBelfast:“ I had my first Ob Gyn appointment yesterday and after a pap smear there was some bleeding. She asked ... [snip!] ... but I passed it all last night. To say that I am depressed is an understatement - I am sorry but that's all I have to say.”

Joey, I am so sorry...our situations are very similar and I know all of the heartache that goes along with it. I went to my first appointment too, and there was no heartbeat, they said my baby just quit developing at about five weeks. This was my first pregnancy and I had just finally come to terms with being a mom, I had just planned to move, bought all the baby books, quit my job, and overall was very excited....it feels like everything is lost now... My sister died in december from luekemia, April 14 was her first birthday as an angel, it was also the day i found out I was pregnant, so this pregnancy was very special to me, as I'm sure that your pregnancy was very special to you...It is so hard to understand what the point of all of this is...If you need a person to be sad with, I'm here alongside you*

My DH and I were soooo excited to find out we were pregnant after 8 months of trying, we wanted to have a baby so much. I felt like things were really going right in my life and that I was finally getting the baby I wanted so badly. I was so excited that the day we found out we told all of our friends and family. It would have been the first grandchild on both of our sides, our moms were ecstatic to hear the news. When my DH told my mom in law about the m/c she was so sad that she cried, I felt like I had let my family down. I know it wasn't my fault, but the news made everyone we told sad...even people at work that I don't know very well got teary eyed. It has not been a good experience and that makes me sad to know that next time I get pregnant I'm going to be filled with all this doubt and worry and I'm going to be afraid to tell anyone. There are a lot of emotions that come with having a m/c, I'm glad for places like this where I can come and get it all out and know that I'm not alone in this journey.