He said he doesn't want to see his son anymore.

because of me.
I did nothing to him, all I did was not let him inside the flat. He came knocking at 2am and expecting me to open the door,. he was saying that it was an emergency and something happened to where he lived. I told him to go away as it wasn't my problem as we are not together and that it was my choice who I let in. and if you need help go to your current girlfriend not me. too bad he ain't currently working otherwise I wouldn't have no problem in filling out a form for csa to make him pay.

There is another problem :
I think the girl who he cheated on me with had his baby and she doesn't want anything to do with him, I don't think he even knows she kept it .. I think she is in a relationship with another guy. Should I tell him about the baby just incase he doesn't know or should I keep my nose out.

Thank you everyone.

I'd leave it alone.

A. Good on your for not letting him in at 2 AM

B. Still go after child support. He will HAVE to get a job and pay or risk his license and going to jail.

C. Don't tell him a thing about what you suspect. It isn't your business and it isn't your news to share.

Nose out, just becuse it's the same time frame doesn't mean you know that she wasn't sleeping with other people.

Quoting Carter&Violet♥20:" Nose out, just becuse it's the same time frame doesn't mean you know that she wasn't sleeping with other people."

So I shouldn't feel guilty for not letting him know?

<blockquote><b>Quoting lolarose:</b>" So I shouldn't feel guilty for not letting him know?"</blockquote>

No it could be anyone's baby, she could have had multiple partners.

Quoting Kelly&Coralie:" A. Good on your for not letting him in at 2 AM B. Still go after child support. He will HAVE to get ... [snip!] ... going to jail. C. Don't tell him a thing about what you suspect. It isn't your business and it isn't your news to share."

 

Couldn't have said it better if I tried.

no stay out of it, maybe there is a reason why she doesn't want him to know and you may not know if its actually his.

Quoting The Great Mustachio:"   Couldn't have said it better if I tried."

So I shouldn't feel bad for not letting him know?

Quoting Lin Brown:" no stay out of it, maybe there is a reason why she doesn't want him to know and you may not know if its actually his. "

There is a chance it's his because the dates work out, but I ain't really bothered about her, I just feel guilty for not letting him know because I don't think he does.

Quoting lolarose:" There is a chance it's his because the dates work out, but I ain't really bothered about her, I just feel guilty for not letting him know because I don't think he does."

no you shouldn't feel bad, like I said, maybe there is a reason why she doesn't want him to know.

Quoting Lin Brown:" no you shouldn't feel bad, like I said, maybe there is a reason why she doesn't want him to know. "

... Maybe she doesn't want him to know because he's a jerk to her too.  

<blockquote><b>Quoting lolarose:</b>" So I shouldn't feel bad for not letting him know?"</blockquote>




smurf no... harsh but not.

Quoting Kelly&Coralie:" A. Good on your for not letting him in at 2 AM B. Still go after child support. He will HAVE to get ... [snip!] ... going to jail. C. Don't tell him a thing about what you suspect. It isn't your business and it isn't your news to share."

very well put, I approve this message

(too many political ads on TV...)

Quoting Summerfrost:" ... Maybe she doesn't want him to know because he's a jerk to her too.  "

If that guy was dating a supermodel he still wouldn't be happy. He is a jerk to all the girls he has dated and I'm just waiting for the current girlfriend to find out what he is really like.