He attacked me...

Well as most of you know, last night there was a lot of drama between my SO and I. Anyway, I found one of my old friend's and asked her to translate the message (she and her SO speak Spanish.) After that I confronted my SO and asked him who Alma was and he stared at me like he was smurfing deaf. Then he flipped out and started grabbing me, pulling me and etc. I tried using my phone to call 911 but he kept grabbing it away.
Finally he stopped hitting me, and I was crying so hard that I didn't know what to do. I'm in bed now but I haven't slept at all. I am so afraid if I leave, or tell him to he will try and kill me.   I'm just so upset, and I'm still afraid. I should have never confronted him about it.

Quoting ♡Dulce Sunshine +1:" Well as most of you know, last night there was a lot of drama between my SO and I. Anyway, I found one ... [snip!] ... tell him to he will try and kill me.   I'm just so upset, and I'm still afraid. I should have never confronted him about it."

Tell someone to call 911 for you. You need to get away from that psycho.

You know you need to leave, we shouldn't have to tell you that. (i' not trying to be mean)

You're pregnant and he was hitting you? Clearly he has no respect for you or your baby. If you can't call the police, get someone on fb, bg, via text to do it for you and get the heck away from him. That is not a normal response to a question.

Are you physically ok? Nothing is broken and baby is still moving?

<blockquote><b>Quoting ℛoo.:</b>" You're pregnant and he was hitting you? Clearly he has no respect for you or your baby. If you can't ... [snip!] ... from him. That is not a normal response to a question. Are you physically ok? Nothing is broken and baby is still moving?"</blockquote>



Yeah physically I'm alright. I'm just very scared...

He should never have hit you and reacted that way. Is there anyone you can call who can call 911 for you? You need to get out of there asap.

Call the cops or have someone do it for you.

Please have someone call the police for you!

  I'm sorry mama.

Its clear tht he has no respect for you ir that baby. Would you want him round your bab abusing the baby too. I would get someone to call 911 or tell a friend to stop by and tell her to do it . Because worse case yu can really end up dead, or losing the bby , and he can go to jail not only for abusin a women but it is also considered endangerment to a child.

So is he cheating on you then? If so thats a bad relationship to begin with. ANyway I know from expirience how you feel. You can either do one of 2 things: stay with him and endure it to see if he changes after he sees the baby (my guy DID change, thank god), or run off to a friends house while he's gone. A friend or a family member WILL keep you safe. Get a PFA against him (Protection From Abuse for those who dont know what it is) and a restraining order if needed, but most importantly get out. That babys safety as well as your own is important.

Do you have any bruises or marks on you?

If I were you and I felt that stuck, I would wait til the morning and then act like everythings fine and get the smurf out whenever I have the chance. Goto the police and file a report, get pictures taken, etc. And stay with family or friends if you need to. That smurf is not okay. And even more smurfed up that he's doing it while you're pregnant with his child.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Ciara♥:</b>" Do you have any bruises or marks on you? If I were you and I felt that stuck, I would wait til the ... [snip!] ... friends if you need to. That smurf is not okay. And even more smurfed up that he's doing it while you're pregnant with his child."</blockquote>

Agree with this.

I'm really glad nothing is broken, but next time op it could be worse and you could lose the baby or your own life. You really don't want to raise a child with someone that doesn't care if he's endangering his child's life, someone that beats you and probably cheats on you. You deserve better, your baby deserves better. Nobody should be disrespected and treated in this way.

You need to call the cops and then leave ASAP. Nothing will get better from this and if he gets away with it once he will do it again. Please you deserve to be treated so much better. Leave now.

ALSO, trying to take your phone from you when you are trying to call the police is illegal. He can get in trouble for that as well. Make sure you include that in your police report.

girl you know I agree with all the others on here. pm me if you want to talk.