this is what made me change

idk if this goes here but if not let me know! i went from 200 to 240 since having my baby, mostly due to the medication i was on for depression, they since changed that! well i was at my mother in laws house when she came up to me and told me i was so fat that i was going to die! i was only 240 i mean yea thats big but damn i mean, there are people out there 5 times my size. it killed me and my confidence so much that i actually bought a work out dvd and watched what i was eating to prove her wrong! so far i been doing the cardio, this was my second day and my body is in like shock but i feel so much better and im eating so much better! im doing this bc i want to prove that i can do this. and as far as my mother in law goes, i wont give her the grace of my company anymore until i feel comfortable!

Sometimes honesty and tough love are what takes to help people get motivated.

Her approach was a lil cruel, but I'm sure her intentions were in the right place.

That's just evil to say to you. Well good for you for losing that much weight though. I weigh 148 right now but I wanna go down to 120 and I just don't have the energy to work out the end of the day. Lol. But keep it going, Good job!

thnaks and yeah it was my sister in law gave her hell for it and so did my husbands cousin. i didnt lose the weight yet but i know i will bc i have before its just hard with a baby! thats another thing to i know i had her 6 months ago almost but youd think shed be a little more sensitive for the fact i just had her

Quoting foxyroxie:" thnaks and yeah it was my sister in law gave her hell for it and so did my husbands cousin. i didnt lose ... [snip!] ... thing to i know i had her 6 months ago almost but youd think shed be a little more sensitive for the fact i just had her"

Yeah I know what you mean. Have you tried the Jillian Michaels 30 Day Shred? I did that for about 1 1/2 weeks and lost about 7 pounds in that amount of time. Although it is really hard. I was thinking about starting it up again myself. But I'm just soooo lazy when the day is over lol. These kids just wear me out.