sister trouble.

my first pregnancy was a mess now that im on my second and super excited there is one person that i should be shareing this with that is missing.... I realized very quickly the first time around that pregnant women have a hard time getting along all of the time. well this time im pregnant and a month a head of my baby sister. im due nov 15th and she is due dec.24th. with such close due dates i was hopeing this is something we could share and embrace in together. Well my hopes are long gone. Ever sence the first compairason from my dad. who lets just say shold keep his mouth shut(and i told him that) she has been missing in my life. With out an explanation. I understand as being pregnant my self that people pointing at your belly and asking questions is not the easiest thing to experience especially the first time around. But I have done nothing wrong. It is compleatly unfair to compair and contrast me and her as far as weight, size and shape goes. I have always weighed in the early 100's and am carrying more in my back. althou i did get in the early 200's at the end of my pregnancy. i feel like in order for us to speak again i have to gain more weight. i love her so much and am loosing in this battle any advice?

So she's bigger than you and he mentioned it, so she's now mad at you because of it? Did I get that right?

If your sister won't speak to you because you are carrying different than her than she is way to immature to be a mother. Two of my sisters are due with in the same time frame as me. One who is due Nov 16 just 3 days after me and hardly looks pregnant at all. The other is due in late Jan and looks pretty pregnant. I myself look like I should be going into labor at any minute or having twins. We all love and support each other despite that.

yes pretty much spot on. thats what i dont get either. honestly. none of my wrong doings has brought me here. with her. i know the matturity level is kinda on a low. but we are 4years apart and you gain so much more knoledge after you have your first one. i know the matturity level will sink in. but as a big sisters point of view this really sucks. especaially sence my dad and her mom are splitting up. i see no good from it. Eventually i am afraid i will loose her alltogether. and she has been in my life sence i was 5.