i Just Really Need To Vent .. :'(

Im 34 weeks & 3 days pregnant. My emotions have been even more outta wack then they was already, my body has been in so much pain ,ectt ectt ...

I feel so alone all the time. i have nobody to talk to , no shoulder to cry on or nothing ! yeahh i probably sound like a big ass baby but oh well. Sometimes i just want someone to hold me , listen to me & not just tell me things they THINK i wanna hear. My babydaddy seems to think im just kidding or over reacting about the pain ive been in. My hips have been hurting so bad i actually sat up the other night an cried. while he just laid beside me ... ASLEEP !
he jokes around an says things like " you gonna make it " "man i hate to see you when its actually time to have her " And plus on top of all this as the time goes by i get more an more scared and freaked out ! im so scared to be a momma. scared of labor & actually having her.   but once again all i hear is " ahh its gonna be okay .. blah blah blah " i dont wanna hear that, i wanna hear the truth about things ya know. ugh idk i guess things have just been getting to me more then they should be right now. who knows. i just needed to vent , get this off my chest casuse like i said i have NOBODY here to talk to .

thanks for taking the time to "listen" to me bitch .

I'll tell you the truth... Labor is going to hurt like a bitch. But once you have your little baby in your arms the pain will have been all worth it.

Have you talked to your doctor about the pain you're having?

Thats what im exactly afraid of -__-
but yeah . my doctor sucks ! they just say take hot baths .. which doesnt help!
ive also been seeing a chriopractor seems like hes jus making it worse instead of better ..

Its true...labour sucks...but once the baby is out - its OVER! My L&D nurse said that to me and I really wanted to punch her. The minute he was out, I said 'Elizabeth, Im so sorry...you are so right!"
When I held him...ugh....INCREDIBLE.

And there are rough times as a new mom....but there are also the most wonderful, exciting moments, which come pretty much multiple times a week.

You are at the end....and trust me...its hard. Your body has gone through so much and theres still more to go. The pain is horrible and sleep is next to impossible.

Breath. Remember you wont be pregnant forever. And remember...men dont understand it....come here and talk to the girls.

Thanks Girl , im just so ready for her to be here & this pregnancy to be over with . Adn your def right. Men dont understand AT ALLL !

I hear you completely. My husband just says "oh you only have 2 months left. Just hang in there." I'm like mother smurfer let me take this belly off and stick it on you and see how long 2 months can be! And he is the type that was born without common sense. So when I yell at him for something anymore he just replys with "its ok brandy. I understand your hormones are high. Why don't you just go lie down." Omg you have no idea what it takes not to pop him in the balls. Its not my hormones. Its that he acts like a damn idiot!

The only friend I had left just disowned me a month or so ago. My family doesn't talk to me for one stupid reason or another. The only person I have to talk to is my mom. She acts like she has lost some of her marbles and turns every conversation to be about her.

Point is, I'm with you. Let's just run away together to a spa and have people caiter to us until we give birth. Lol

Quoting BrandyJ#3:" I hear you completely. My husband just says "oh you only have 2 months left. Just hang in there." I'm ... [snip!] ... her. Point is, I'm with you. Let's just run away together to a spa and have people caiter to us until we give birth. Lol"

OMGGG same here with my babys dad ! i swear i wanna pop em in the mouth sometimes. ! plus i bitch so much about my clothes not fitting his response " ah you aint got much longer , its only temp " LIKE REALLY !? go buy me some damn shorts man ! LOL

im right there with you go .. lets go to Bora Bora (: that place looks A M A Z I N G !!!!

<blockquote><b>Quoting MistyPayne:</b>" OMGGG same here with my babys dad ! i swear i wanna pop em in the mouth sometimes. ! plus i bitch so ... [snip!] ... buy me some damn shorts man ! LOL im right there with you go .. lets go to Bora Bora (: that place looks A M A Z I N G !!!!"</blockquote>




Haha right? Like ok what should I wear in the mean time? A curtian?

Lol I'm so with you!

I have been the same way !
I sit up and he will roll over ask me if i'm okay then when I say I'm in pain he say's it'll be okay and goes back to bed. I cry about EVERYTHING -_- I'm so wore out and ready to have Gavin i'm 36 weeks and 2 days.

i hear ya all. its an emotional rollar coaster for me as well. cant sleep due to the hip pain and so when i do finally crash im out. my husband wakes me in the morning and says i need to get on a sleep schedule and its like really?! you try to get comfortable with a basket ball size gut plus being smashed between a cat and him. if i sit up and he wakes up and asks if im ok and i say just hurting or uncomfortable he just says sorry rolls over and falls back to sleep