Frustrated....

My boyfriend and I just started TTC. One day he says we can start trying again and the next day he says we aren't ready yet. He keeps saying he doesn't want to lose another baby, which i understand, but he thinks I'm not ready physically. We waited just like the doctor told us. I'm taking folic acid and prenatal pills. I am on medicine because I've been getting hives, but that is the only thing thats wrong with me. It just makes me sad that he doesn't think I'm capable of being pregnant again. All my doctors say I'm healthy, and i feel like my boyfriend is the one holding us back from having another baby. Thanks for letting me get this off of my chest!

4 moths is a very short time. Maybe he is the one whom is not ready to move on to TTC. My husband had a really hard time with our lost, it effects both of you differently. Good luck!

I know exactly how you feel!!! We have had 3 miscarriages and the doctor tells us it is ok to try but my boyfriend acts as if he is not ready!! Sometimes I just dont understand or know what to do!!! Good Luck

I totally know how you feel. Actions speak louder than words, though. Unless he starts not wanting sex at all or insisting upon using protection, he still wants a child, but might feel like talking/obsessing/planning for it will somehow foul it up. Miscarriage hurts men too, but they show it by being aloof or flaky quite alot.