my hubby and brother doesnt do these things

He's a lazy smurf so he never helped me at all.

All the time.
He helped with diapers, baths and potty training

yah we take turns

some men dont feel comfy with it

Yup, if I need him to. Usually, I get right to it. But if I can't, he does.

Quoting ❥amber❥~:" some men dont feel comfy with it"

That's a cop out.
If my DH said he wouldn't help he would get HELL from me. And I mean HELL. It is BOTH our kids, not just mine.

My hubby is changing hers right now lol.

Im not married but my daughters father doesnt change his childs diaper but then again i dont trust his ass anyway.

Quoting ImOkay:" Im not married but my daughters father doesnt change his childs diaper but then again i dont trust his ass anyway."

You don't trust your child's father to change their diapers?! And you had a kid with him!? Are you with him?

He in this life with me, so he does half the work, be it boy, girl or cat.

No we arent together.Long story short he is a dead beat n we were never together.

And i dont trust him for good reasons.my daughter was not planned btw.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Vivian [♥]:</b>" That's a cop out. If my DH said he wouldn't help he would get HELL from me. And I mean HELL. It is BOTH our kids, not just mine."</blockquote>

!!!!!!!! I personally would wonder why they didn't feel comfortable changing their own daughters diaper..that's just weird IMO

We don't have a daughter yet but DH says he's not going to change her diapers (if/when we have a girl) I'm like uh yeah you are. I change Peyton's diapers without an issue, you can change our daughter's. He said okay...lol.