re: family drama (rant)

Quoting Yurvon [♥]:" you are still a teen my darling smurf. "

This was lovely.

Quoting Landon's Mommy *22wks*:" I just LOL'd at this!! 'Tis correct. I had my son at 18 and even though I was graduated, living on ... [snip!] ... names & arguing such bull smurf. Grow UP.... I don't think I've seen anyone as ignorant or immature as you on this site."

I had my son 3 months before I turned 20. lol.

Quoting Bethy-poodles:" This was lovely. "

Only the loveliest coming from me <3

Quoting Yurvon [♥]:" Only the loveliest coming from me <3"

So I've come to notice  

Quoting Yurvon [♥]:" I had my son 3 months before I turned 20. lol. "

So see, technically considered you are also considered a "TEEN" mom. lol

Quoting omg im pregnant!:" and im not a teen mom im 18 legally im an adult. ty. "

you are eight TEEN still a TEEN mom

Quoting º×ß¡±©µ×º:" you are eight TEEN still a TEEN mom "

It is useless trying to get it through her thick ass skull... Even though I think being an adult is more than just your age... she certainly isn't acting like an adult throwing a fit because she isn't the center of attention.

Quoting Landon's Mommy *22wks*:" Well I could say the same about my SIL. She's 34 weeks. I'm 22 weeks. This is her first and this is ... [snip!] ... so is anyone's 2nd, 3rd, 4th, etc..... a pregnancy is a pregnancy. We're all blessed so why even make it like a competition???"

Agreed.

Quoting omg im pregnant!:" omg wow you ppl really are morons 18 is a legal adult im not saying it again its not my fault you dont under stand common sence"

Hey, I'm not saying that I agree with all of these other women's statements and actions nor am I siding with them. But on the other hand, you certainly don't help the situation by throwing a fit of fury, flipping out, calling people nasty names etc.
I don't know about your having Bipolar Disorder and being pregnant, I myself only have an anxiety disorder along with Aspergers, but I can imagine that this is hellish. But please...if possible, take this opportunity to gain some form of self-control where you're not cussing these women out like this is a streetfight.

Sure, sometimes a lot of members on BG can be brutally honest or, to be perfectly honest myself, act like utter bitches when giving you their opinion. Although mostly honesty if I'd have to be fair. But when you get to THAT kind of level, the behavior you've seen from them becomes mainly responsive. Which is what I'd highly suggest you avoid doing or work to not allow to happen next time you find yourself in this kind of conflict!  
Just saying...

Quoting ValleyofDeathResident:" Hey, I'm not saying that I agree with all of these other women's statements and actions nor am I siding ... [snip!] ... behavior you've seen from them becomes mainly responsive. Which is what I'd highly suggest you avoid doing!   Just saying..."

it wouldnt have gotten to that kind of level if they didnt do tht on everything i post its ridiculous. and if they are going to sit there and call me names when i fed up with the bs im gunna do the same . im attacking you in anyway with this post im fed up with it.

I've been reading all these posts that she needs to grow up but don't we all have irritations that we just want to get out of our system. And sometimes those things we post on here others may not approve of but they don't start yelling at us. She has a right to rant about something that bothers her. Personally I understand what she is getting at. She's not saying that the other woman's pregnancy is less important, she's just saying that she's tired of it feeling like a competition.

Quoting Tristan Carman:" I've been reading all these posts that she needs to grow up but don't we all have irritations that we ... [snip!] ... that the other woman's pregnancy is less important, she's just saying that she's tired of it feeling like a competition. "

thank you. at least someone understands what i was trying to say.

Quoting Tristan Carman:" I've been reading all these posts that she needs to grow up but don't we all have irritations that we ... [snip!] ... that the other woman's pregnancy is less important, she's just saying that she's tired of it feeling like a competition. "

perhaps SHE should stop making it one then.

Quoting A❤T=P[Baking]:" perhaps SHE should stop making it one then."

From what I was reading she's not trying to. She wants to enjoy her pregnancy and others to be happy for her. I have the same issues with my cousin. Even down to when I went to the ER for problems with my son at 16 weeks. All of a sudden my cousin had it worse. Just because you feel like someone is always one upping you doesn't mean you are making it a competition. It means you would like others to look past themselves for once and be a little happy for you as well.

Quoting Tristan Carman:" From what I was reading she's not trying to. She wants to enjoy her pregnancy and others to be happy ... [snip!] ... making it a competition. It means you would like others to look past themselves for once and be a little happy for you as well."

Edited her posts.

after people starting telling how immature she was being, she went and changed what she had wrote.