Second pregnany, NO sex drive (TMI)

What the hell?!   It makes me so sad. I'm 23 weeks and me and SO haven't had sex for about 2 months now   It feels so damn uncomfortable and disgusting, to say the least. With my DS, my sex drive was off the charts. I wanted sex everyday all day whenever I got the chance. But with this pregnancy, I have excessive discharge :/ So the minute SO goes in, its everywhere and just turns me off immediately. Then it feels like I'm so much tighter now, not in a good way either. It's like when he goes to come out like he's pulling skin out :/ My poor SO. I told him about it and he was real bummed out, felt like it was his fault. I don't know if its normal or if I should bring it up to my OB. It's just odd to me because now I avoid any type of intimacy past kissing because I don't wanna get caught up in the moment and then when we go to have sex it's just not what either of us expected. Blah  

Do you have a yeast infection maybe???

Quoting rpgmomma8404:" Do you have a yeast infection maybe??? "

That's what my mom was wondering when I confronted her about it. Could it really have gone unnoticed for almost 2 months now? I mean there's no weird odor to my discharge or anything, it's cloudy like it usually is. It's just a lot. I may sound stupid but wouldn't they be able to trace a yeast infection from a urine test?

Thats pretty much me with my current pregnancy,which is really strange,because with my others,i had a very high sex drive(i normally do anyways,but even more so then).With this one,not only is there no desire to actually have sex,but,i don't even want him touching me.It just feels awkward.I don't know how to explain it.I just want to be let alone.All i can say is,it's obviously the hormones,but it sucks.Like i said,i'm normally very sexual,so this is a total turn in the opposite direction for me.Just don't feel bad...you're definitly not alone!

Quoting mommy2b#5:" Thats pretty much me with my current pregnancy,which is really strange,because with my others,i had a ... [snip!] ... normally very sexual,so this is a total turn in the opposite direction for me.Just don't feel bad...you're definitly not alone!"

That's how I am too. Before I got pregnant this time around, me and SO would have sex almost everyday sometimes twice a day when DS was with his dad. It just sucks! And I feel so bad for him. I tried explaining it to him but he feels like I'm just not attracted to him anymore.

Quoting Mommy of two (::" That's what my mom was wondering when I confronted her about it. Could it really have gone unnoticed ... [snip!] ... it usually is. It's just a lot. I may sound stupid but wouldn't they be able to trace a yeast infection from a urine test? "

You know, I'm not sure if it will come up in a urine test. I didn't know I had one until I had sex and it was like my vagina was on fire.

Quoting rpgmomma8404:" You know, I'm not sure if it will come up in a urine test. I didn't know I had one until I had sex and it was like my vagina was on fire. "

I actually wish that was the case instead of what me and SO are going through   lol then I'd definitely know what to do. I'm kind of skeptical about asking my OB about my sex drive though   I mostly get the answer "it could just be the pregnancy hormones."

Quoting Mommy of two (::" That's how I am too. Before I got pregnant this time around, me and SO would have sex almost everyday ... [snip!] ... It just sucks! And I feel so bad for him. I tried explaining it to him but he feels like I'm just not attracted to him anymore."

I know...i do feel really bad too.We normally have it 4-5 times a week,now it's once a week if even..I do give in and "service"(lol) him once or twice a week,but even then i have to literally force myself into it.Thats just memi feel really guilty and don't want him to have to suffer.

same here , I'm 30 weeks so far, and sense i reached 22wks i am feeling like getting raped!! and i didn't have infection till last week .

I had no sex drive at all in the beginning but once I hit about 20 weeks it went through the roof, we have sex like 4-6 times a day. Hopefully it changes for you as well.

Quoting mommy2b#5:" I know...i do feel really bad too.We normally have it 4-5 times a week,now it's once a week if even..I ... [snip!] ... even then i have to literally force myself into it.Thats just memi feel really guilty and don't want him to have to suffer."

lol you and I both. At least I'm not the only one, that makes me feel a little bit better. I sure hope this goes away after I have the baby though.

Quoting Haya el wow:" same here , I'm 30 weeks so far, and sense i reached 22wks i am feeling like getting raped!! and i didn't have infection till last week . "

You had a yeast infection? How did you doctor find out about it?

Quoting Mommy of two (::" You had a yeast infection? How did you doctor find out about it? "

I had yellow discharge from that area .