Help coming out

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So im veryy attached to my mom . Very. I tell her everything. But now I have a girlfriend... I just dont know how to tell her. I am an adult but I feel like a hs student now. My girlfriend just told her family like it was nothing. Im not that brave. But I do have to tell her . Ahhhh help!?

are you scared she wont be supportive?
I am really close with my mom, i think i would just say it.

if you guys are that close, she probably already has an inkling. i've never been in your situation, but i know with my own mom, we've never really been "close", but she always seems to know stuff about me before i tell her... so, i'd try to kind of keep my mind towards that in order to not be so nervous. but good luck to you!

Quoting -Dankka!:" are you scared she wont be supportive? I am really close with my mom, i think i would just say it."

Yea .. Shes supportive with everything I do. But I am soo nervous. Im so close with her I dont want anything to change .

Quoting MommaNoodle:" if you guys are that close, she probably already has an inkling. i've never been in your situation, but ... [snip!] ... me before i tell her... so, i'd try to kind of keep my mind towards that in order to not be so nervous. but good luck to you!"

Yea she'll say things that make me feel that way. Like " Im taking the kids tonight why dont you invite your amiga ( friend whos a girl) over ..

You should just tell her in a normal conversation-So I'm seeing someone now. Her name is _____ ...etc. If you guys are really close it shouldn't be a big deal.  

Quoting Regina Phalange:" You should just tell her in a normal conversation-So I'm seeing someone now. Her name is _____ ...etc. If you guys are really close it shouldn't be a big deal.  "

You are right I should say it casually. When Im nervous I laugh so I know ill be cracking up the whole conversation.

Quoting Hit Girl:" "

yes! i'd just go and tell her. it seems like she already knows. moms just know stuff, lol. i bet she'll say she was waiting for you to tell her, lol! but it seems like she'll be fine with it. i don't know her, of course, but that's how it seems to me.

Quoting Hit Girl:" You are right I should say it casually. When Im nervous I laugh so I know ill be cracking up the whole conversation."

  Haha, good luck!

Quoting MommaNoodle:" yes! i'd just go and tell her. it seems like she already knows. moms just know stuff, lol. i bet she'll ... [snip!] ... you to tell her, lol! but it seems like she'll be fine with it. i don't know her, of course, but that's how it seems to me. "

I hope youre right. I hope being Christian doesnt make her hate me. lol
I know she wont, but I do want her to be comfortable around me.

Quoting Hit Girl:" "

i hope it doesn't matter!  

Quoting MommaNoodle:" i hope it doesn't matter!  "

I hope it doesnt either ! AHHH Thanks for your support ! It means a lot !!!

It will be ok! Don't worry. When I told my mom I was gay, she wasn't very happy at first, but she's really coming around.

Quoting JuJuLove:" It will be ok! Don't worry. When I told my mom I was gay, she wasn't very happy at first, but she's really coming around."

Aww congrats! Good for you !
You are right / no worries !

Idk, I'm really close with my mother and I think if I ever had a girlfriend I'd had a hard time telling her too. I'd probably start with guess what? She and she are dating! She how she reacts to the news and work your way up be like can you imagine what it would be like if I had a girlfriend .. and so on to finally going well I have a girlfriend! Lol.