Tired of BDing!

ok girls you know what I mean...I am so tired of BDing! I miss SEX! Like it used to be before you were propping your butt up, cutting anything that might kill the sperm, feeling obligated when you get a + OPK. We all know that Baby Dancing is way different than having sex, and I guess I just miss that. Do you think all of this stuff that we do to try to get pregnant actually makes it worse? Cause it seems like the ones that just go out and have sex seem to have a better success rate, lol.

Anyway just wondering if I'm alone in this....lol.

  I'd just stick to the fun way.

You can do like my hubbs and I did... get drunk and go at it! Best of luck to you! ***Baby Dust***

When my husband and I were TTC, we were doing all the stuff the books tell you to do and it was really stressing me out when I kept getting my period. One day, we just said screw it and started enjoying ourselves again and stopped worrying about it. The next month, I got a BFP and we are expecting our daughter very soon!

Quoting Mrs. Rachael TTC#1:“ ok girls you know what I mean...I am so tired of BDing! I miss SEX! Like it used to be before you were ... [snip!] ... ones that just go out and have sex seem to have a better success rate, lol. Anyway just wondering if I'm alone in this....lol.”

I don't know. I have a lot of friends and know a lot of people who have and/or TTC...and it seems to me the more they try the less luck they have... I honestly think stress has something to do with it...

Quoting Mommy Pullin:“ You can do like my hubbs and I did... get drunk and go at it! Best of luck to you! ***Baby Dust***”

exactly my point...how many babies are made through drunken sex? It's been so long since I've had alcohol, and even longer since I've had drunken sex! lol

Quoting MommyRust:“ When my husband and I were TTC, we were doing all the stuff the books tell you to do and it was really ... [snip!] ... ourselves again and stopped worrying about it. The next month, I got a BFP and we are expecting our daughter very soon!”

Perfectly said! I was the exact same way. We tried for a whole year, then the one month I said I'm not even going to think about it, I ended up pregnant. And I was so horny that month too, lol. Good luck!! Baby dust******

i agree!!!!!! From now on I am going to try and just have sex!!!! That's how I got pregnant before, granted that was 18 years ago, but still I hope it will work.

Quoting Mrs. Rachael TTC#1:“ exactly my point...how many babies are made through drunken sex? It's been so long since I've had alcohol, and even longer since I've had drunken sex! lol”

I have a VERY drunken sex baby. It works!

Quoting Mrs. Rachael TTC#1:“ exactly my point...how many babies are made through drunken sex? It's been so long since I've had alcohol, and even longer since I've had drunken sex! lol”

OH! lmao too funny!  

Quoting KSmith515:“ Perfectly said! I was the exact same way. We tried for a whole year, then the one month I said I'm not ... [snip!] ... I'm not even going to think about it, I ended up pregnant. And I was so horny that month too, lol. Good luck!! Baby dust******”

I was really, really horny that month too! lol We had sex constantly and had a ton of fun doing it and then BAM, we finally got the results we wanted!

Quoting MommyRust:“ When my husband and I were TTC, we were doing all the stuff the books tell you to do and it was really ... [snip!] ... ourselves again and stopped worrying about it. The next month, I got a BFP and we are expecting our daughter very soon!”

This is how it was for me and my hubbs. After 14 months of trying we just gave up and said it'll happen when it's supposed to happen. About 6 weeks later I was pregnant.

Quoting MommyRust:“ When my husband and I were TTC, we were doing all the stuff the books tell you to do and it was really ... [snip!] ... ourselves again and stopped worrying about it. The next month, I got a BFP and we are expecting our daughter very soon!”

That is exactly what happen to my husband and I.  

Quoting LOOPY4971:“ i agree!!!!!! From now on I am going to try and just have sex!!!! That's how I got pregnant before, granted that was 18 years ago, but still I hope it will work.”

yeah I was drunk, 17, and with a condom with my last! I mean granted I know I have medical issues so there's just certain things that I HAVE to do to get pregnant, I can't just ignore it and let it happen, but sometimes I'm tired of doing everything. I think this 6 month TTC break might do me some good, and I think I need to spend more time with my DH. The money I would have spent on OPK, HPT, progestrone cream, vitex, etc, I tihnk I will put towards a date night or something.

Wonderful idea!