I've been doing a lot of thinking. SO & I will bounce back and forth on the idea of another kid. He's mostly "no". I'm usually in the middle.....
But now, I agree with SO. I'm happy with just our little girl. We've wondered what it'd be like to have a boy sometimes, but not enough to want one.
I believe it's official. Kiki will be our only child.
A lot played on our decision. Financial aspect, family support, emotional.....
Also, had a few guilt trips about how it's not fair for Kiki to not have a sibling, she won't have a close sibling relationship, she'll be lonely.
All in which we gave no smurfs about. Both SO & I have siblings and family......none of us have any type of relationship with them. Siblings aren't that important to us.
So the plan is, no babies. When Kiki gets old enough to go to school, I can finally go back to work. We can stack up again. We're building credit currently and should be able to buy a house once we have a little money stacked up. Once we buy a house, it's just paying it off, and maintaining the business. We plan on starting a college fund for Kiki also.
By the time we go, we want her to have her own home, a business to maintain if she wants, and a pretty solid bank account.
She might not have any siblings or family when we're gone, but she'll be set up just fine when she does decide to have a family of her own. I don't feel bad about that one bit