re: Happy with one child....

Quoting Tavi:" Ha! That'll be me in a couple more years. I soooo look forward to that   Are you shooting for a full time or part time? "

Well I'm gonna go to school for Respiratory therapy so it will be full time but only 3-12's a week.

Quoting Tavi:" Right on! Just wait when you don't have to pay anything, you're done. You're going to feel on top of ... [snip!] ... though...Sounds like you guys have a pretty good plan though   Keep up the good work. Have you guys looked at houses yet? "

No girl I dont want to get myself hyped and the credit is not where it needs to be but saving a whole check would be lovely I wish we could do that we both work but its getting out of debt that takes our money but hey at least we are getting there you guys too paying off a car is good really good.

Quoting P3RvYmCp3rv:" Well I'm gonna go to school for Respiratory therapy so it will be full time but only 3-12's a week. "

Oh that's not bad at all! Well I hope everything goes smooth  

Quoting sweetbea0906:" No girl I dont want to get myself hyped and the credit is not where it needs to be but saving a whole ... [snip!] ... out of debt that takes our money but hey at least we are getting there you guys too paying off a car is good really good."

That's definitely right. Once you hit that feeling of no debt, it's going to be awesome   Since you guys are only having one kid, how big of a house do you plan on buying?

Quoting Tavi:" That's definitely right. Once you hit that feeling of no debt, it's going to be awesome   Since you guys are only having one kid, how big of a house do you plan on buying? "

A four bedroom well thats what I want a 3 will surfice though I just want to have guest space because his 2 have to have a room when they come over. We live in a 2 bdrm now and umm I am not too thrilled about having my child sharing a room with them I am glad it just sometimes but she probably will never be in there though and you guys what are yall looking at. I really want a fixer upper though houses in Texas are cheap

We have gone back and forth on this issue as well. My son is 4 now and I do not want another child right now and I don't feel like i ever will. I think we are done. People do say lots of stupid things, but I think the bottom line is not being guilted into something you don't want to do just bc people think they know how your lives will turn out. I actually read a great article, I think it was called Only children are ok, or something like that.