Would you report your ex partner?

I am very bitter towards my son's father mainly because he does nothing to help. I know that he is driving without insurance and his license is going to be suspended on the 14th of this month,should I report him?.

I don't love him anymore , I am over him, but why should he live a carefree single life while I'm stuck at home looking after our son.

I have reported him before because he got caught speeding and issued a fine but the fine was coming to my address and I rang them to let them know he doesn't live here anymore but they said that he has to be the one to call up.

The bitch in me wants to report him and make things diffcult for him but the adult in me says mind your own business, The adult in me is winning lol What would you do?

Mind my own business.

Personally, I'd mind my own business and call it his loss (not being there for your guys's son).

No very childish, plus he will get caught on his own. Also the police aren't going to sit in front of his house waiting for him to leave to catch him driving without insurance.

I'd mind my own business

Quoting B♥Z:" Personally, I'd mind my own business and call it his loss (not being there for your guys's son). "

Thanks , that helps me alot.

He's the one missing out. It will come back to him. I despise my older sister and nobody can stand to be around her. Her license got suspended for not paying some fine or something-- it will catch up to her.

If you were really over him you wouldnt care....

I would mind my own business. I know my daughters father drives unlicensed too, as long as he doesnt drive her anywhere(and i know he doesn) then i dont care.

Quoting Manda♥Bella:" If you were really over him you wouldnt care.... I would mind my own business. I know my daughters father ... [snip!] ... know my daughters father drives unlicensed too, as long as he doesnt drive her anywhere(and i know he doesn) then i dont care."

lol If I wasn't over him I would have no problem in saying it.
thank you everyone.

I wouldn't let my kid in the car with him.

Quoting lolarose:" I am very bitter towards my son's father mainly because he does nothing to help. I know that he is driving ... [snip!] ... make things diffcult for him but the adult in me says mind your own business, The adult in me is winning lol What would you do?"

What good would reporting him do really? Sure you might feel better and less bitter briefly, But it's really a childish thing to do, You don't love him, You are happy not to be with him, So let it go, Let him live whatever life he likes, In the end all the wrongs will come and bite him in the ass of their own accord, So just let it be, Or you'll find things will turn on you.

Quoting Jynxd Blyss:" What good would reporting him do really? Sure you might feel better and less bitter briefly, But it's ... [snip!] ... the wrongs will come and bite him in the ass of their own accord, So just let it be, Or you'll find things will turn on you."

I was thinking of doing it but I have to let him live his own life how he wants it.
thank you, your very smart.

Quoting Manda♥Bella:" If you were really over him you wouldnt care.... I would mind my own business. I know my daughters father ... [snip!] ... know my daughters father drives unlicensed too, as long as he doesnt drive her anywhere(and i know he doesn) then i dont care."

This. Just let him be. Seriously, if you don't care.... don't deal with him. Don't be bitter... it will eat you alive. Just move on.

Quoting lolarose:" I am very bitter towards my son's father mainly because he does nothing to help. I know that he is driving ... [snip!] ... make things diffcult for him but the adult in me says mind your own business, The adult in me is winning lol What would you do?"

First ? is he involved in the childs life? If so then yes!!!!! Only for the simple fact if he has the child in the car and gets pulled over and arrested what happens to your child? its not about what he is or isn't doing but more a safety issue. If he doesnt want to be a parent get him to sign his rights and move on with the relief that he is out of the picture. If he doesnt want to do that get child support asap! The law will take care of him then.