re: so ahead of myself, but still...

Quoting ☮Sugar Magnolia:" Uh, no. No adoption talk here. If you're not going to be supportive, gtfo."

I was giving her the option to take into consideration, I wasn't being supportive or against her choice & was mainly wanting the real BC part to be more important.

Quoting ☮Sugar Magnolia:" Nothing about you aborting in any situation makes you a horrible person. Abortion is you choice and your ... [snip!] ... choice and your right. It's no easy decision, but don't feel like a bad person. I'm gonna send you loads of anti-baby dust.  "

I agree with this...


Do not feel guilty if you decide to abort. I kept my first, aborted my second and adopted out my 3rd. I know how you feel. You can only make the right choice for yourself.

This is Abortion Survivors, no other options. She wants to get an abortion if she is indeed pregnant. She didnt post a topic about keeping it.

You're in ABORTION Survivors.
You can't say "The least you could do is put it up for adoption."
It's against the rules, and if I was OP, I'd be modding your ass.
Read the rules before you post here. If adoption was an option for her, this would be in TTC&Adoption.

Quoting ☮Sugar Magnolia:" Uh, no. No adoption talk here. If you're not going to be supportive, gtfo."

Please unquote her.

Quoting Yurvon [♥]:" Not everyone can do adoption. And real BC? comeon.. "

Please unquote her.

Quoting Meg ♥:" Please unquote her. "

was just gonna say that, you beat me  

Quoting £egendary Zeppelin:" was just gonna say that, you beat me  "

 

Part of keeping AS a supportive place is not engaging people in arguments, even if they are posting anti abortion statements. Just pm a moderator if you see something that shouldn't be here. Then, if they are a super mod, they will flag it. If they are a regular mod, they can post it in the mod thread and it's taken care of. Super easy and it doesn't make one statement escalate into something more dragged out.

Quoting Mer is a Douchebag:" Part of keeping AS a supportive place is not engaging people in arguments, even if they are posting anti ... [snip!] ... the mod thread and it's taken care of. Super easy and it doesn't make one statement escalate into something more dragged out."

I agree, not that you needed anyone to second it.  

hello ladies

update:
im not sure what the outcome is going to be...

but ever since yesterday, i've been having heavy bleeding, cramps and large blood clots.
im not sure if you can have a miscarriage this early, or what even looks like but i kind of have a feeling that thats what this is.
even though i was leaning towards abortion... im kind of sad because i never got the option to decide if i wanted to keep the baby, or get an abortion.
i let my ex know and he didnt even respond...so now im also kind of seeing that he just used me for a booty call.
still upset i never got the chance to make a choice for myself.
am i wrong for that?

Quoting Aliyah'sMommyBri  :" hello ladies update: im not sure what the outcome is going to be... but ever since yesterday, i've ... [snip!] ... that he just used me for a booty call. still upset i never got the chance to make a choice for myself. am i wrong for that?"

Did you ever take a hpt?