Who has had multiple Abortions but...

I have a 4 yr old son and I have had a total of 4 abortions...I am not proud but every one of those times in my i wanted to keep them so bad but there was always a second party involved that was against it. My first before my son, my parents didnt pertty much want the shame....2nd my son was sick with cancer and we were in and out of the hospital and adding a newborn into that would have been awful. my 2 and 3 were by another man after me and my sons father had been split up for about a yr after my son regained his health. He was into the drug life and had 4 baby mommas and 5 kids....the first i found i was pregnant i thought it was going to be a great time. find out his ex is pregnant and a little fling was also pregnant and about due.....I couldn't do it: i was stress, sick, lost wieght. the last he eneded up getting locked up...never thought anything of it til the county was telling him 15 do 4. I knew then I didn't want to live this life for me and more so for my son and the child that could be, but I wasn't going to be able to do it alone and he was against me doing it alone with out help. Cause I know I would be somewhere homeless if I did. But now I changed my life around, my sons father has being trying to give it a second try and we decided to do so and now we want to expand our family and I honestly wouldn't take this step with anyone else...every again. I want my childern to have the same father. I made mistakes and I pray and pray for God to forgive me and I have come at piece with my choices, but now that we are trying to concieve I am afraid that I have destroyed my body to the extent of no reproduction. Is it still possible that I can concieve.

Absolutely yes!!! Never give up hope mama.

*hugs*

I think it is still possible for sure. Maybe talk to a doctor too about your doubts. I am curious though... were you on BC any of those times? You don't have to answer, I guess I'm jw. Good luck to you

It's still possible! Stay positive, I'm sorry you had to go through that. <3 it's an extremely tough choice to make.

Quoting Batman ♥:" Absolutely yes!!! Never give up hope mama. *hugs*"

Thanks

Quoting Batman ♥:" Absolutely yes!!! Never give up hope mama. *hugs*"

OT but lmfao @ your avi  

Aww I am so sorry for what you have been through  I have had one abortion and it hurts but now I have two beautiful boys that I would not have now if I kept the first. I lost my job and my now husband wasn't making much more than minimum wage so we would have been on the street if we went through with having the baby.

As for abortions hurting your body, did you have D&C each time or did you do pills? D&C there is more chance of scarring which can make it harder to conceive. Hopefully you will be able to conceive soon to have another little one to join your family!

Quoting £egendary Zeppelin:" OT but lmfao @ your avi  "

Keeping it classy  

my bff has had multiple abortions, at least 4 I believe. She is currently 31 weeks pregnant and her and the baby are doing great.

My son is also a cancer survivor! All my best to your son and continued health

Quoting £egendary Zeppelin:" I think it is still possible for sure. Maybe talk to a doctor too about your doubts. I am curious though... ... [snip!] ... doubts. I am curious though... were you on BC any of those times? You don't have to answer, I guess I'm jw. Good luck to you"

Yea it was kinda my fault.....I would forget and try to double bck, or not have sex like a week if I did mess up with my pills, but evidently my body screamed baby dust and it pretty much always got me. now with my first in high school i was on bc previously but I had stopped like a month and half before getting pregnant

Quoting Shannonsfirst:" my bff has had multiple abortions, at least 4 I believe. She is currently 31 weeks pregnant and her and ... [snip!] ... and her and the baby are doing great. My son is also a cancer survivor! All my best to your son and continued health"

Thank you...what was your sons diagnosis. My son had AML Leukemia; he had six month chemo, but eventually had to have a bone marrow transplant at 17 months

Quoting ♥MKB♥:" Yea it was kinda my fault.....I would forget and try to double bck, or not have sex like a week if I ... [snip!] ... got me. now with my first in high school i was on bc previously but I had stopped like a month and half before getting pregnant"

oh I see   I have a bad memory too w/ the pill lol. I stopped taking it yrs ago

Quoting Chellie Flores:" Aww I am so sorry for what you have been through  I have had one abortion and it hurts but now I have ... [snip!] ... can make it harder to conceive. Hopefully you will be able to conceive soon to have another little one to join your family! "

D&C except for 1

Quoting £egendary Zeppelin:" oh I see   I have a bad memory too w/ the pill lol. I stopped taking it yrs ago"

I did try the ring once and it did good for better than the pill....cause before the ex boyfriend got sentenced to his time I didn't get pregnant and I started the ring after my last abortion up until june, but I wasn't seeing him like that then he shortly went in

Very possible. Stay positive hun, you will get you're bfp.