Quoting Blakelee Jagger's Mommy:" Its nice to finally see someone who agrees! Most girls these days say screw the guy and dont want them ... [snip!] ... and their petty drama especially when they have a child. They need to grow up and think about their kid(s) and not themselves."
It's true about girls these days! I had my son when I was 17 and I worked from when I was pregnant till my son was 2 and I started trying to finish my school and then I got pregnant again. It's been a tough pregnancy so I am trying to do some schooling at home. A lot of people in my town are teen mothers who sit on their ass and do nothing so it gave me a bad name too.
But I think your absolutely right! If you still act like a child when you have a child yourself, you need to re think your life. Saying that I know people make mistakes (because trust me, I have made quiet a few) but after awhile you stop feeling sorry for them and giving them chances. You realize that they won't change. It's a shame what some kids go through; it ruins their life and in turn probably their kid's lives too.