re: The boyfriend's friends...

I sujest really sitting down and talking to him. See if he'll listen if he won't after you honestly try just seperate for a while if he changes as she said great if not then well I sugest the seperation becomes permanent.

my bf WAS the same way. till igot pregnant.its one thing if he's been getting high before you were pregnant, but u've done a lot of changes for this pregnancy,(cant drink, always asleep, not hanging out with friends) he should at least change some things about him 2. i told my bf the same day i was pregnant, this cant b u anymore we gotta start living life thinkin of one person only and thats the baby.and i told him u can do watever you want but dont expect me to b here wen you get back.im not having my child around that type of father.since then he's been an angel.we have our slip ups but no ones perfect. jus think about the people your putting in your baby's life.is that the kind of father you want for your child?

oH hell no. lol. If you have to be pregnant 24/7 for nine months then he should have to be there for you. Going out every night of the week? I'm pretty sure that's unnaceptable when he has a family now. It sounds like he needs to grow up a little bit. But yeah, he can't read minds. So if you truly don't want him to go say something like I was thinking we could go get dinner and movies or something. And just tell him I feel like shit alll day long and I just want to be able to hang out with you when you get off of work. Or maybe have some friends over at your guys' place once in a while? Unless you're not okay with that lol. And seriously if he doesn't change i'd say leave his ass. I'm really not trying to be mean, but he sounds like somewhat of a loser at this point. You both are in this situation and he shouldn't get the easy way out. But hell, if he doesn't change leave him and he can pay child support for the next 18 years