3 years after my miscarriage.

& my mother finally decides now is the time she wants to acknowledge it ever happen. I went through this loss alone, without anyone. No one IRL even said anything about it.

When I found out I was pregnant for a second time at 18, she was anything but happy. I had already been living on my own, finished school and raising a 3 year old.
She just posted a graphic thing on to my FB that reads " To my special Mummy - I love you..with lots of hugs and kisses from your Angel."
Defiantly started crying.

Oh wow. How do you feel about her posting that?

I am kinda angry. It took 3 years for her to acknowledge it and she
a) did it over FB
b)just posted it to my FB wall.

I think she could have inboxed me or even called.
Although I never did really expect this.

I think it's because she is currently wanting another grandchild, and I don't think it is the right time for myself, not to mention I am not in a committed relationship.

Ouch! Don't let her push you to have another baby when you're not ready. Have you talked to her since she posted that??

Quoting triple'xxx:" Ouch! Don't let her push you to have another baby when you're not ready. Have you talked to her since she posted that??"

No, I haven't she is working days and I really don't know what to say to her.
Why three years later?
Why in the middle of trying get earn a College diploma, knowing I want to go back for another once a graduate in April?

She knows I want another baby really bad, and up until recently I was all for it. Finally when I decide this isnt the right time or situation.. she does this !

Quoting luctor et emergo ( L ) d&:" No, I haven't she is working days and I really don't know what to say to her. Why three years later? ... [snip!] ... bad, and up until recently I was all for it. Finally when I decide this isnt the right time or situation.. she does this !"

Atleast your mom is for it. My mom's about to slit my throat.. LOL. I hope things get better and your mom gets on the same page though.

Quoting triple'xxx:" Atleast your mom is for it. My mom's about to slit my throat.. LOL. I hope things get better and your mom gets on the same page though."

I am sure your mom will come around, they always do. She seems to be an understand woman!