Quoting Mommy☠Kate:" Man thats tough. My SO is bipolar and when he starts to become unreasonable I just call him out on it. ... [snip!] ... make observations and tell him what you think. It's the only way he will be able to see how others view his actions. good luck!"
thank you...but i don't know where to start on calling him out. i tried telling him i understand about working in the heat and people coming over but no one knows whats bothering him unless he tells them.
i'm ignoring him right now but when i tried that he said
"unless u got something real to say thats gonna help me keep it to your smurfing self. i feel bad for all of you think that im not just going to smurfing snap one day all the times you have seen me mad is my temp still under control you have NEVER seen me smurfing mad i just weant to scream and break everything and justtell all of you off my whole family yours and work just smurf everybody."
this smurf right here makes me want to pack up and leave again.
when i did the time before last he promised to get help. never did. we really can't afford it and if i leave i have to live with my grandma with nothing. i have nothing.