Quoting Summerfrost:" Well if someone told me this is what pregnancy is going to be like, I probably would have gotten my tubes ... [snip!] ... when they get older. "How can you be so ungrateful when i spent a million days on bedrest to make sure you got here safely....""
Oh my gosh....I am so sorry to hear about your first child. I can only imagine what it could have been like for you. Oh man...that was my biggest fear when I first found out I had to stay on bed rest. The doctors kept warning me that if my little one would come at that moment, she wouldn't have a good chance of surviving. I felt so depressed during that time. I cried every day. I didn't think she would make it. So it hurts my heart for you to have to hear that you had to go through that.
Yes, if someone did tell me what pregnancy is like, I'd be a bit reluctant as well! lol. Getting pregnant was tough for me. Now that I am, I'm having all these issues. I didn't realize pregnancy would be like this and I never imagined that I would be the one to have to go through this. I definitely understand you though about your perspective!
Now I've been able to understand my mom better. She had complications as well and has suffered losses. I am already thinking things like, "If this little girl gets an attitude with me, I will remind her how much trouble I had to go through to even become pregnant with her and to keep her safe during the pregnancy!" lol Oh goodness, motherhood! =)