Quoting Matcha Mamma:" DH and i have one, i like to share we have a few rules we abide by, and any time we hit a relationship ... [snip!] ... a relationship snag we close up shop to focus on us as a team. sex is just sex to us, it's just for fun as long as it's safe."
thats how it would be for us, if you dont mind me asking what are some of your rules?
the ones we came up with are
no one we have had feelings for(exs)
its just sex
no friends ( of the other)
and nothing can happen in our house or bed
and condoms are a must