Quoting kitermom:" First, divorce happens to monogamist people all the time. So yes, if The relationship is already smurfed ... [snip!] ... to be with another person let alone another women. Even if god forbid something happened to my dh I would still seek a man."
he wants to have an experience with another man ... we've been together since he was 18 and hadn't fully developed his sexuality ... luckily I get enormously turned on by man on man action. The way I see it is I would rather him do it with me than to go out and get taken advantage of one night.
He would never ever never cheat on me and is the most amazing man in the world. He's the kind of guy who would rather come home to watch Cars with his son than go out with his friends, and today he came home with a headache but picked DS up from daycare because he wanted to be with him. I don't see why him wanting to try sucking dick automatically means he's a cheating deadbeat. The other posters comment kind of upset me that she would assume that he would do something like that