scared for dr appointment!

so i have posted on here in the past about my struggles with not getting pregnant. i have not had a period in 3 months, and have had 1 negative pregnancy test. i am going to an gyno appointment in the morning and am very nervous and scared about what could be going on. someone who i help take care of was recently diagnosed with ovarian cancer and this is scaring me that maybe something like that is wrong with me. i have been with the most amazing man for the past 3 years and know that we are meant to be together. it is a very touchy subject for us to talk about (not having a baby by now) my boyfriend has said that he doesnt want to talk about it because he is worried that there is something wrong with us and that he has thought that we have been getting pregnant and something happens to the baby. if anybody has any words of encouragement i would greatly appreciate it. i am very nervous about tomorrow morning and what could be going on with my body.

Good luck with your appointment. I hope all is well. I know it's easier said than done, but try to stay positive.

My ex-husband and I tried for 8 years, and I did the pills, the surgeries, the injections and got all the way to IVF when we divorced. All they found was I have PCOS and that made my periods jump all over, 26-70 days on times I could actually remember and write down lol.

Don't worry about the appointment, I remember getting really scared before mine as well. It's hard going to those, even if you have someone to go with you.
A friend of mine told me (she had read or heard it somewhere) that there's always a 60% chance of NOT getting pregnant when you have sex, so don't think it's really that there's anything wrong...could just be timing ;).

Good Luck!

My husband and I waited for 9 years!! I would go 5 months without a period and they couldn't find anything wrong!

they think that i have PCOS. i am a little relieved that they may know what is going on but at the same time very scared. they started me on a medication today to start a period. i am hoping and praying that my insurance will cover the testing that will need to be done and will cover the expenses for the medication when i do start a family. they said that i will have to take something to be able to become pregnant. everyone on here is amazing and very encouraging. thank you so much