re: **Official April 2013 Due Date Thread**

<blockquote><b>Quoting ♥ fashionista mãe:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Mama k ♥ (10 weeks:</b>" Thanks hun, I don't feel great, ... [snip!] ... great and you are beautiful! Don't be too hard on yourself. Thin isn't always better. I look like death if 120 or under lol."</blockquote>




Thanks hun, its a constant battle but I'm doing way better than i use to be. And idk how you.could.ever look like death! You are so beautiful! But I hope youre feeling.at least a lil better?

Quoting Becky☮Will:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Happy Humanist:</b>" I know a lot of hospitals are different ... [snip!] ... at, your baby will still be delivered by the OB on call while the midwife helps or whatever the OB allows her to do basically."

That's ridiculous.

I have beenhaving horrible migraines. They are so bad! I've tried tylenol and it helps.but I.still have them after taking it, just not as bad. I'm not really sure.what to do. It's al.pay unbearable

Quoting Becky☮Will:" <blockquote><b>Quoting £egendary Zeppelin:</b>" ooo, so the first MW I talked to charged ... [snip!] ... That's an amazing price! Seriously! Here its $5,000! I hope you can convince SO to go through with it!"

oh man, idk if we'd be able to do 5,000$   is that what you're having to pay?

& yea he did come around lol he was just pissed/annoyed at first, then I told him I could contact more people & when I said 2,000$ he said okay, we could work w/ the lowest price.

men...

Almost************

Quoting Mrs. Khal Drogo ~ Expecti:" forgot to ask on BG if my EDD can be changed to the 17th april :-)"

yea I will!

Quoting i don't make vaginas.:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Becky☮Will:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting i don't ... [snip!] ... I called the OB I had w/ B & he doesn't allow vba2c unless you've had a prior vaginal delivery regardless of circumstances."

that sucks   I know a bunch of people who had succesful vba2c too

Quoting Happy Humanist:" Your insurance doesn't cover midwives? I have blue cross/blue shield. They cover CNMs but if they're ... [snip!] ... are in OB practices, so they only deliver in hospitals and you're billed exactly as if you were seeing an OB in the practice."

no, not homebirth midwives. well, I've heard that they do cover CNMs as well but I haven't been in touch w/ a CNM who takes my insurance. Soooo. lol

Quoting 12.21.07¤04.18.13:" Hey ladies. My phone is turned off and I'm in the middle of packing to move in with my boyfriend in a ... [snip!] ... is peachy. I'll be 12 weeks on thursday and I have an appointment on friday, so I'll make an effort to pop on then and update. "

I'm glad things appear to be going better w/ you & him  

<blockquote><b>Quoting £egendary Zeppelin:</b>" no, not homebirth midwives. well, I've heard that they do cover CNMs as well but I haven't been in touch w/ a CNM who takes my insurance. Soooo. lol"</blockquote>



*strokes chin* say I go into labor before EDD, I could labor at home...then go to the hospital whenever I feel like it...& deny a c/section..right?

 

DH is getting soo irritated with me. He's really not understanding this smurf.

Quoting i don't make vaginas.:" <blockquote><b>Quoting £egendary Zeppelin:</b>" no, not homebirth midwives. well, ... [snip!] ... like it...& deny a c/section..right?   DH is getting soo irritated with me. He's really not understanding this smurf."

you can do whatever you want, they can't force you into anything. most people don't really realize this though. so what is going to happen, you're going to schedule one at 40 wks or did I read that wrong?

<blockquote><b>Quoting £egendary Zeppelin:</b>" you can do whatever you want, they can't force you into anything. most people don't really realize this ... [snip!] ... don't really realize this though. so what is going to happen, you're going to schedule one at 40 wks or did I read that wrong?"</blockquote>




The OB I was seeing was telling me no later than 39 weeks. When he brings it up about scheduling it in a few months or whatever..I'm going to tell him no earlier than 40 weeks...but my EDD falls on a Sunday..so prolly 40w1d or whatever.

& if labor doesn't come by then..I *could* push it another week. He might deny seeing me though. Idk what to do anymore  

Quoting i don't make vaginas.:" <blockquote><b>Quoting £egendary Zeppelin:</b>" you can do whatever you want, they ... [snip!] ... & if labor doesn't come by then..I *could* push it another week. He might deny seeing me though. Idk what to do anymore  "

how could he deny you? there has to be at least one OB there that would allow you to pick the way you want to give birth...

<blockquote><b>Quoting £egendary Zeppelin:</b>" how could he deny you? there has to be at least one OB there that would allow you to pick the way you want to give birth... "</blockquote>




For going against medical advice. I mean if I do go into labor..then go to the hospital..the on call OB could deliver him/her.

<blockquote><b>Quoting £egendary Zeppelin:</b>" how could he deny you? there has to be at least one OB there that would allow you to pick the way you want to give birth... "</blockquote>




Dr. Harter, my last OBGYN w/ B, was one of the few OBs here that vbac, he does VBA2C..but only if you've had one prior vaginal delivery.