re: **Official April 2013 Due Date Thread**

Quoting Cooking#2:" What a nice a thing to tell Maddie"

Compared to the other things she has been told...that was nothing

31 weeks....... oh my Jesus. It's getting close.

& I think I may just end up being a single mom. Found out some stuff I never wanted to hear last night. What a joy.

Oh...... I saw Nelly Furtado last night in concert (for free) & she has aged like crazy!

Quoting shelbylynn [31 WEEKS!]:" 31 weeks....... oh my Jesus. It's getting close. & I think I may just end up being a single mom. ... [snip!] ... to hear last night. What a joy. Oh...... I saw Nelly Furtado last night in concert (for free) & she has aged like crazy!"

It is going by REALLY fast!

Uh-oh, everything okay?

I have not heard about her in forever!!

Quoting Charlee ♥ Jensen:" It is going by REALLY fast! Uh-oh, everything okay? I have not heard about her in forever!!"

Nope, nothings okay. Got a phone call last night from a friend saying there was a Plenty of Fish account in Kyle's name. Can't find it so I figure he deleted it once he knew I found out about it. But I was sick to my stomach all night last night. Just wasn't something I needed to hear.....

Quoting shelbylynn [31 WEEKS!]:" Nope, nothings okay. Got a phone call last night from a friend saying there was a Plenty of Fish account ... [snip!] ... he knew I found out about it. But I was sick to my stomach all night last night. Just wasn't something I needed to hear..... "

  That is crap! Can you confront/ask him about it?

Quoting Charlee ♥ Jensen:"   That is crap! Can you confront/ask him about it? "

Oh I most definitely did confront him about it. I was out shopping all day with my friend in Detroit and as soon as we got back across the border I had messages on my phone/missed calls (I had to turn my phone off for roaming charges).

He just keeps saying "it's old, it's old" but apparently there's a picture of our Camaro on there and that is a NEW car....... not an old car........ he thinks I'm stupid. lol. I think he's missing a fuse in his head. His mom is really smurfed up and always cheated on his dad and had sex for money and did freaky smurf (she's a dominatrix), all the kids were exposed.... he thinks it's OK and I don't think he understands consequences.

Quoting shelbylynn [31 WEEKS!]:" Oh I most definitely did confront him about it. I was out shopping all day with my friend in Detroit ... [snip!] ... smurf (she's a dominatrix), all the kids were exposed.... he thinks it's OK and I don't think he understands consequences. "

Has this happened before with him?

Men generally think we are dense and have no idea what is going on   I hate that more than anything because 1. I am already hurt and upset that there was this dating profile and 2. now I am even MORE pissed off that you think I am an idiot and lied to me about it.

Quoting Charlee ♥ Jensen:" Has this happened before with him? Men generally think we are dense and have no idea what is going ... [snip!] ... that there was this dating profile and 2. now I am even MORE pissed off that you think I am an idiot and lied to me about it. "

Once a few years ago I found an email from a chat site that was in his name but since then....... no, nothing else. He seriously thinks I am just stupid and I swear he lied so much last night that he actually believes his lies. I don't even know what to do because if it has been active recently and he's been talking to people....... I'm 8 months pregnant... it's never going to change

Quoting shelbylynn [31 WEEKS!]:" Once a few years ago I found an email from a chat site that was in his name but since then....... no, ... [snip!] ... if it has been active recently and he's been talking to people....... I'm 8 months pregnant... it's never going to change "

And you don't want to constantly worry about what he is doing behind your back, especially with a baby around (Been there, done that...doing that)

I think the best thing to do it just try and figure out what it is that YOU want, don't worry about anything else just focus on what it is that you, yourself, needs and wants and go from there

Quoting Charlee ♥ Jensen:" And you don't want to constantly worry about what he is doing behind your back, especially with a baby ... [snip!] ... that YOU want, don't worry about anything else just focus on what it is that you, yourself, needs and wants and go from there"

I'm kinda stuck right now. No where to really go so I have to stay here... which is going to make it so much harder than what it needs to be

Quoting shelbylynn [31 WEEKS!]:" I'm kinda stuck right now. No where to really go so I have to stay here... which is going to make it so much harder than what it needs to be"

I understand that too, but maybe everything will straighten out for you guys and will be okay again?

When I was pregnant with Charlee a similar issue happened to us and I had nowhere else to go and ended up staying and everything ended up straightening itself out and I am glad I stayed (well...most of the time. Sometimes I wish I had left but I am pretty sure that is normal pregnancy hormones   )

Quoting shelbylynn [31 WEEKS!]:" I'm kinda stuck right now. No where to really go so I have to stay here... which is going to make it so much harder than what it needs to be"

I wish you luck with whatever you end up doing!
When i had clara it was definitely 9 months of me trying to leave Jason for good. and having Clara changed nothing like i hoped it might  
But uh then again, look at us now, ha. so, anything can happen.

Quoting KNZ.:" I wish you luck with whatever you end up doing! When i had clara it was definitely 9 months of me trying ... [snip!] ... and having Clara changed nothing like i hoped it might   But uh then again, look at us now, ha. so, anything can happen. "

My biggest fear was my daughter growing up without her mom and dad together. I just don't want to be made to look like the idiot in the end for staying with someone who would do this to me. I just can't jump to conclusions because I don't know all the details, but everything is pretty clear to me.

<blockquote><b>Quoting shelbylynn [31 WEEKS!]:</b>" My biggest fear was my daughter growing up without her mom and dad together. I just don't want to be ... [snip!] ... do this to me. I just can't jump to conclusions because I don't know all the details, but everything is pretty clear to me. "</blockquote>


  I'm sorry Hun.

Quoting i made a vagina.:" <blockquote><b>Quoting shelbylynn [31 WEEKS!]:</b>" My biggest fear was my daughter ... [snip!] ... because I don't know all the details, but everything is pretty clear to me. "</blockquote>   I'm sorry Hun."

My brain hurts from trying to problem solve. I feel like I'm in high school math class again lol