Quoting johnna.diane:" That's what I did with my step mother-in-law. We stayed with them for a few months when we moved back ... [snip!] ... against me, I know that I was polite and respectful, so she can hold it against me all she wants. I have no regrets about it. "
Right, that's all you can do sometimes! I'm past the point of needing to say something to her, so when I do, I'm sure it'll be messy and angry. lol. This isn't even the first incident where she's pissed me off in the not even two months since my son's been born. And it's the SECOND time her son's been sick and brought around Owen! SO got sick the last time, and couldn't be around our son for two full days because he was puking everywhere. He even had to call in to work, which we so can't afford right now.
If she keeps this smurf up, I'm not going to be able to hold my tongue anymore. SO's just going to have to deal with the "conflict." I'm sick of getting zero respect from her.. Not to mention getting zero respect for my son