re: SIL.. making me insane.

I recently took my cousin in law to the hosptial. We took her two kids. Well The 11 month old was perfectly fine however the 2 year old was rolling around on the floors. I kept yelling at him to get up off them but he still did it. Then he decided to open the red garbage bin which is for blood and other nasty stuff. Yeah I smurfing screamed and the mom was like What. I ran him to the bathroom and washed him hands. He plays with my son and I swear to god if DS gets sick once more from that kid I'm gonna flip!

So I really dont like our SI because of the whole name thing you posted about and now this is she smurfing retarded. Does she not know that it isnt safe for your son OWEN who is a little angel to get sick OMG I think you should send her a text message letting her know how you feel like dont be silent about it or call her or something!

Quoting ToriDelanaMcGee:" So I really dont like our SI because of the whole name thing you posted about and now this is she smurfing ... [snip!] ... I think you should send her a text message letting her know how you feel like dont be silent about it or call her or something!"

lol, yeah. The name thing irritated me, but this just flat out pissed me off! I told SO to talk to her about it. He tells me he agrees with me, but has yet to say anything. I swear in his eyes his family can do no wrong. I understand he's close with them. But her putting our sons health at risk (even though it's "just a cold") and not even giving us a heads up is so smurfing ridiculous, I don't even have words for it.  

Quoting johnna.diane:" That's what I did with my step mother-in-law. We stayed with them for a few months when we moved back ... [snip!] ... against me, I know that I was polite and respectful, so she can hold it against me all she wants. I have no regrets about it. "

Right, that's all you can do sometimes! I'm past the point of needing to say something to her, so when I do, I'm sure it'll be messy and angry. lol. This isn't even the first incident where she's pissed me off in the not even two months since my son's been born. And it's the SECOND time her son's been sick and brought around Owen! SO got sick the last time, and couldn't be around our son for two full days because he was puking everywhere. He even had to call in to work, which we so can't afford right now.   If she keeps this smurf up, I'm not going to be able to hold my tongue anymore. SO's just going to have to deal with the "conflict." I'm sick of getting zero respect from her.. Not to mention getting zero respect for my son from her.  

Yea I understand and honestly I would do it for you if I lived close enough lol because she just made me so angry I had to pray for her lol and dont you hate when people think their family or friends can do no wrong ugh

Quoting ToriDelanaMcGee:" Yea I understand and honestly I would do it for you if I lived close enough lol because she just made ... [snip!] ... made me so angry I had to pray for her lol and dont you hate when people think their family or friends can do no wrong ugh "

Right.   Definitely frustrating!!