I'm 36weeks pregnant and I'm kinda scared! Am I ready to hav

I am 36weeks pregnant and I'm scared of everything not being okay wit my baby... I've been having problems wit my medical nd all that stuff do I haven't seen my dr. For the past whole month... The past weeks I've been feeling real tired nd my vaginal area is swollen nd its hurts now I dont know if I'm already some cm open cuz I feel like she's coming out already...

You'll know when she's coming out   Tiredness is normal as is vaginal swelling, pain and discomfort.
Insurance or not, go to the ER when in doubt. Good luck.

Why haven't you seen your doctor?

Quoting Eli Rivera:" I am 36weeks pregnant and I'm scared of everything not being okay wit my baby... I've been having problems ... [snip!] ... my vaginal area is swollen nd its hurts now I dont know if I'm already some cm open cuz I feel like she's coming out already..."

Better get your ass to see your OB. You should be seeing her once a week at this point.

Quoting elisabeth♡:" Why haven't you seen your doctor?"

2nd sentence.

Quoting Eli Rivera:" I am 36weeks pregnant and I'm scared of everything not being okay wit my baby... I've been having problems ... [snip!] ... my vaginal area is swollen nd its hurts now I dont know if I'm already some cm open cuz I feel like she's coming out already..."

More than likely you'll know when she's coming. You can't miss it. But yeah, whether you have insurance or not, the ER is always open to you. And if you're on state assistance, they can foot the bill within a month if you get it straightened out. You're okay. It's scary, but this is what our bodies are made for. We are strong, we can handle it  

you should have medicaid. go apply for it and go see your dr. if you dont get proper prenatal care the might call cps after baby is born

<blockquote><b>Quoting Just Ames:</b>" You'll know when she's coming out   Tiredness is normal as is vaginal swelling, pain and discomfort. Insurance or not, go to the ER when in doubt. Good luck."</blockquote>




Thanks... I know meh feeling tired is normal but at times I feel like I can barely walk :/

Quoting 3 Pumpkins:" you should have medicaid. go apply for it and go see your dr. if you dont get proper prenatal care the might call cps after baby is born"

No they won't. Many people don't even know they're pregnant.



OP if you're pregnant and within income limits, you can go to the HEalth Department right now, POAS and get Medicaid immediately. It will cover all back medical bills for 30 days also.

Quoting Eli Rivera:" I am 36weeks pregnant and I'm scared of everything not being okay wit my baby... I've been having problems ... [snip!] ... my vaginal area is swollen nd its hurts now I dont know if I'm already some cm open cuz I feel like she's coming out already..."

Hi...I always say better safe than sorry. It only takes a few hours to put days of doubt at ease. Oh and your vagina being swollen...normal :} You should feel pressure when you pee because she has dropped and your closer to delivering. It's normally to feel contractions but if your nervous about ANYTHING...go get checked out,that is what the doctor is for :}

I haven't seen my dr because I had my medical prefectly fine but when I went to see my dr on my last appt. they told they couldn't see me because they had changed my insurance nd I had a different dr. I tired fixing it like three weeks ago nd they everything was okay but I called yesterday to make my appt. nd they told meh once again I have a different dr. So now I have to go see my dr. Nd get a referral to see my ob dr. I was seeing before everything is getting so hard on meh nd tired honestly...

Quoting Crystal Marie S.:" No they won't. Many people don't even know they're pregnant. OP if you're pregnant and within income ... [snip!] ... to the HEalth Department right now, POAS and get Medicaid immediately. It will cover all back medical bills for 30 days also."

That's definitely true for the early months. But the later months they kind of frown on you not getting adequate prenatal care. At least that's what I was told when I was pregnant with my first. I don't know if it varies state to state or not.

Quoting Eli Rivera:" I haven't seen my dr because I had my medical prefectly fine but when I went to see my dr on my last ... [snip!] ... go see my dr. Nd get a referral to see my on dr. I was seeing before everything is getting so hard on meh nd tired honestly..."

I know it's a pain in the ass, but you've really got to ge tit taken care of now. You're only 4 weeks away from full term. You're not going to want some weird Doctor you've never met giving the 2 finger check. Call your Insurance again. If you do have Medicaid, you can switch PCP's and you need to tell them CUstomer Service Rep. that you want a confirmation number, then your new Doctor (or if you switched back, your old Doctor) will be able to treat you the same day.

Quoting Bethy-poodles:" That's definitely true for the early months. But the later months they kind of frown on you not getting ... [snip!] ... care. At least that's what I was told when I was pregnant with my first. I don't know if it varies state to state or not. "

But she's not like... avoiding the Doctor, she's having insurance troubles. To bring up CPS because of that is honestly ridiculous and just going to scare the woman when she's already obviously stressing about the fact she can't see a Doctor.

Quoting Crystal Marie S.:" But she's not like... avoiding the Doctor, she's having insurance troubles. To bring up CPS because of ... [snip!] ... ridiculous and just going to scare the woman when she's already obviously stressing about the fact she can't see a Doctor."

That is true. It's completely different if you just don't go.