gone thanks ladies

Um, your Son was grabbing stuff off his plate. I don't care whose kid it is, I'd say something. I mean honestly, you don't even let your SO tell your kid no???

That is up to you and your boyfriend to decide. It's different for everyone. Some people are comfortable allowing their SO to take on a 'parenting' role after a while, but some never are. That's up to the both of you to come to an agreement on.

He was not wrong.

He is in place of his father. He treats the kid like his own, right?

I don't think he did anything wrong. If you don't want him to act like a father, don't date him anymore

No, that's not his business.

He should of got off his ass, and got your son some chips of his own. Then they could have went back and sat on the bed or whatever. Yelling because he went to grab food off the plate, is an over reaction. He's a child, that's what they do.

He needs to be told calmly and properly, you ask not grab.

Your BF went about it in a terrible way, he also has no right to be mad at you, for going and getting your son chips.

Quoting Crystal Marie S.:" Um, your Son was grabbing stuff off his plate. I don't care whose kid it is, I'd say something. I mean honestly, you don't even let your SO tell your kid no???"

i do let him say no and redirect him but this time he like really yelled at him to where my son got scared and started to cry and that never happen before

anyone yelling at my kids will hear it from me, however if he would have said no then I'd have no problem

Quoting Crystal Marie S.:" Um, your Son was grabbing stuff off his plate. I don't care whose kid it is, I'd say something. I mean honestly, you don't even let your SO tell your kid no???"

Theres a difference between yelling at him so he cries and just telling him no... If he had calmly said no and the boy still cried that would be different

My SO is allowed to get after my kids. If u say he can't as ur kid grows it will be what u Gunna do u can't do smurf you have no poqer

I think it depends on the situation and circumstances. And his approach should be similar to the way you discipline. I mean if you plan on being with him for a long time and if he wants to accept your child as his own then he should be allowed to do discipline, as long as it is something you talk and agree about. Had you only been dating like a week or two I would say no, but that's not the case.

Quoting Puff the Magic Dragon!:" No, that's not his business. He should of got off his ass, and got your son some chips of his own. ... [snip!] ... grab. Your BF went about it in a terrible way, he also has no right to be mad at you, for going and getting your son chips. "

he is mad at me because i told him not to yell at my son and he was like i wasnt yelling i told him you clearly where to scare him and for him to start crying i was in the room too

Quoting Moose's Mama:" anyone yelling at my kids will hear it from me, however if he would have said no then I'd have no problem"

Exactly. The yelling is such and over reaction.

Obviously he scared him, the kid cried.
NO in a stern voice is appropriate.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Baby Rocs Mommy[LPC]:</b>" Here is the situation, ive been in a relationship for a little over a year my son love him calls him ... [snip!] ... me discipline your child? Was i wrong for telling boyfriend what i said? ***should of put this in the dating section sorry****"</blockquote>



Honestly I don't think yelling is the answer, but he should be able to calmly discipline your child. Especially if he 's in it for the long haul.

Quoting White Chocolate Milk:" I think it depends on the situation and circumstances. And his approach should be similar to the way ... [snip!] ... it is something you talk and agree about. Had you only been dating like a week or two I would say no, but that's not the case."

I agree with all of this.

Quoting FaithLovesBaby:" That is up to you and your boyfriend to decide. It's different for everyone. Some people are comfortable ... [snip!] ... SO to take on a 'parenting' role after a while, but some never are. That's up to the both of you to come to an agreement on."

I agree with this 100%, this depends on what you two are comfortable with.