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My mum died =(

posted 31st Jul '12
I am 35 weeks pregnant and my mum passed away suddenly last saturday, has anyone else been through this ? I am so sad my baby boy will never get to meet his nanny helen, and also I know her little hints and tips would have been so much help! It is such a bittersweet feeling i am experiencing, on one hand sad she is gone and she will never hold my baby boy, but on the other I am still very excited about meeting him for the first time  
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I'm due September 4th (a boy) & live in Birmingham, United Kingdom
posted 31st Jul '12
Quoting Mary Diprose:" I am 35 weeks pregnant and my mum passed away suddenly last saturday, has anyone else been through this ... [snip!] ... is gone and she will never hold my baby boy, but on the other I am still very excited about meeting him for the first time   "

So sorry for your loss. I haven't had to go through that yet.. But, last week they tested my dad for cancer   Hopefully his results come back good.
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I have 1 child & live in Kentucky
posted 31st Jul '12
I'm sorry for your loss  . My mom passed away last November, I was 22 weeks pregnant. I know how you feel
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I have 2 kids & live in Pennsylvania
posted 31st Jul '12
I'm sorry to hear. We lost our Dad when my sister was 38 weeks and I was 5 months, then I lost my uncle while I was in the hospital after I gave birth.
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I have 4 kids & live in Dildo,
posted 31st Jul '12
I'm so sorry for your loss. We found out our babies gender less then 24 hours before SO mom passed of makes things hard. But don't let your grief over take you.
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I'm due September 28th (a boy) & live in Japan
posted 31st Jul '12
Sorry for your loss. My case was similar my mom died at 34 when I was 5. For both my pregnancies I've had the bittersweet feeling. I kinda got closure by visiting her grave with them when we got home.
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I have 2 kids & live in Albuquerque, New Mexico
posted 31st Jul '12
I am so incredibly sorry. My thoughts are with you and your family.
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I have 2 kids & 1 angel baby & live in Indiana
posted 31st Jul '12
I'm so sorry for your loss. I'm sure she will be watching over you.
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I have 2 kids & live in West Virginia
posted 31st Jul '12
I send you my condolences sweetheart. What a very tough situation you are going through. Just tell your baby every day that grandmum is watching over him and she loves him so much.
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I have 5 kids & 3 angel babies & live in Surprise, Arizona
posted 31st Jul '12
So sorry honey. I was six months pregnant when my Dad passed. He knew it was a girl but never her name. I miss him terribly and I wish she could have met him. I got through and so will you. Time will heal!
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I'm due June 21st, have 1 child & 2 angel babies & live in South Carolina
posted 31st Jul '12
My mom passed away when I was 16 so, she never experienced any of my adult life. It bums me out, constantly. My MIL and I were pretty close. When I met her she was recovering from sclerosis a year or two later she was diagnosed with lung cancer..

When I found out I was pregnant she had overcame lung cancer but, had developed brain and spinal cancer. She fought to see her first grand child though. She finally succumbed 2 months after LO was born, on my birthday.

I definitely know the feeling. Especially now, that my 'back-up' Mom is gone too. Mother's are resilient, I'm sure you'll do just fine.
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I have 1 child & live in Wisconsin
posted 31st Jul '12
I lost my Mom when I was 10 years old, 12 years ago. I wish so much that she could have met my husband and our kids.
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I have 3 kids & 3 angel babies & live in Sardinia, Ohio
posted 31st Jul '12
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I'm TTC since July '12 & live in United Kingdom
posted 31st Jul '12
My dad passed away 4 yrs ago.... and right now im pregnant with my first..... and i know he is happy to have a first grandchild... I will show pics of him to her of her grandfather and say he loves her so much
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posted 31st Jul '12
Quoting Mary Diprose:" I am 35 weeks pregnant and my mum passed away suddenly last saturday, has anyone else been through this ... [snip!] ... is gone and she will never hold my baby boy, but on the other I am still very excited about meeting him for the first time   "

So sorry for your loss  
I lost my mom when I was 16, not the same as being pregnant and losing her, but some days it's still so hard. I'd love to hear the stories of what my son does that was like me as a toddler, or whether he looks like I did as baby (there aren't very many pictures). I'd also like to discuss and compare pregnancies etc. It's very hard. But you can keep her memory alive for your son. I'm putting a page in my son's scrapbook all about my mom, so he knows about her. (I was unofficially adopted by a family when I was 17, and so they are his grandparents. I don't want him to not know about my mom though.)
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I have 2 kids & live in Maryland
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