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Stop Breathing

posted 31st Jul '12
Does anyone else have a kid that will stop breathing during a tantrum?
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I have 4 kids & live in Japan
posted 31st Jul '12
wow
i'm sorry, that sounds awful
and doesn't seem normal AT ALL
I'd get a second opinion
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I have 2 kids & live in New York, New York
posted 31st Jul '12
Quoting regina_margot:" wow i'm sorry, that sounds awful and doesn't seem normal AT ALL I'd get a second opinion"

Yeah. I never thought so. She has done it in front of the Drs and they don't pay attention to it.
The blue thing really freaks me out. I hear of kids doing it, but they don't turn blue.
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I have 4 kids & live in Japan
posted 31st Jul '12
What kind of a dumbass says that is normal  

Holy smurf. I'm sorry
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I have 2 kids & live in Colorado
posted 31st Jul '12
Like the others said, I would definitely get a second opinion because that doesn't sound normal. I'm sorry to hear you're going through that.
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I have 2 kids & live in California
posted 31st Jul '12
Quoting £egendary Zeppelin:" What kind of a dumbass says that is normal   Holy smurf. I'm sorry"

They see it a lot. With other kids they have worked with.
I am not around many kids... So I am no expert.
I googled it, and found a few threads on yahoo. Doesn't seem super uncommon.
I just don't know how these parents are so non-chalant about it.
quotesmurfs?
I have 4 kids & live in Japan
posted 31st Jul '12
I used to hold my breath when I was getting punished when I was a kid. It was more of an attention thing though, to try and freak my mum out. And I was older than 4, like 7 8 9. I knew what I was doing.
It sounds like your girl is having some kind of episode that doesn't sound normal, especially if she's turning blue and has no recollection of it.
I'd get a second third and fourth opinion.
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I have 3 kids & live in New Zealand
posted 31st Jul '12
Quoting ♥ Olive Oyl:" They see it a lot. With other kids they have worked with. I am not around many kids... So I am no expert. ... [snip!] ... found a few threads on yahoo. Doesn't seem super uncommon. I just don't know how these parents are so non-chalant about it."


damn, I just never heard anything like that ever. I would think it's an attention thing too, if she had started it later on... but 8 months makes me think wow... & her not remembering it happened? I'm no doctor though
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I have 2 kids & live in Colorado
posted 31st Jul '12
Quoting h*:...

She has just recently started "explaining" things to us. So, this is the first time I asked her. She has been pretty good at remembering. All she said was how she fell at the park earlier.
She didn't have a clue what I was talking about.
Did your parents get made at you? Her therapist gets pissy and tells her to cut it out. It used to work. Not today... She said it is because we are giving it so much attention. But at 8 months, when she first did it, there was no need for attention.
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I have 4 kids & live in Japan
posted 31st Jul '12
Quoting £egendary Zeppelin:" damn, I just never heard anything like that ever. I would think it's an attention thing too, if she ... [snip!] ... she had started it later on... but 8 months makes me think wow... & her not remembering it happened? I'm no doctor though"

Yeah... She was a preemie and still has issues. I don't know any other preemie moms with her condition that have had these.
The first time, DH was in Tokyo. I smurfing flipped and called 119 (japan's 911). It took them 20 minutes to respond! The beach cruser on base heard the call and came within 9 minutes. I just don't want to ever have to do that again.
quotesmurfs?
I have 4 kids & live in Japan
posted 31st Jul '12
Quoting ♥ Olive Oyl:" Yeah... She was a preemie and still has issues. I don't know any other preemie moms with her condition ... [snip!] ... to respond! The beach cruser on base heard the call and came within 9 minutes. I just don't want to ever have to do that again."

poor baby  
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I have 2 kids & live in Colorado
posted 31st Jul '12
No she didn't get mad as such. More scared because sometimes I'd pass out. For me it was attention or to get out of the growling. But like you said, an 8 month old has no "need" to do that for attention (lack of better phrase lol)
It sounds super scary though and I hope you get some answers!
I haven't had a prem and I wasn't prem myself so I can't comment on that  
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I have 3 kids & live in New Zealand
posted 31st Jul '12
my almost 4 week old does it   i hate it.
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I have 1 child & live in Arizona
posted 31st Jul '12
Quoting ♥ Olive Oyl:" They see it a lot. With other kids they have worked with. I am not around many kids.."


it seems to me that kids holding their breaths as part of a tantrum might not be that uncommon
but the "turning blue" part & not remembering: that's totally frightening and makes it sound like a medical condition / some kind of episode

and something that should get some medical attention
in general, anything that scares the smurf out of me as a parent or as a patient I expect to be taken seriously by my doctor
otherwise, I guess I'd look into getting a new doctor.
quotesmurfs?
I have 2 kids & live in New York, New York
posted 31st Jul '12
Quoting h*:" No she didn't get mad as such. More scared because sometimes I'd pass out. For me it was attention or ... [snip!] ... scary though and I hope you get some answers! I haven't had a prem and I wasn't prem myself so I can't comment on that  "


lol.... I couldn't think of anything better   hehe
I am so bad with wording on this site sometimes.
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I have 4 kids & live in Japan
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