Quoting Keyboard Warrior.:" Ugh. I seriously dread having sex with DH. We don't really anymore, maybe once or twice a week and I ... [snip!] ... try not to let him notice, but ugh, it's so uncomfortable. I feel bad, but I don't even know what to do about it. "
Quoting Squeaky McGee:" I'm sorry. I feel the same way at times, and I don't know what to do about it. When did you start feeling this way?"
Quoting Keyboard Warrior.:" It's been like this for a long time. Since before I got pregnant with our new baby (she's 4 months). ... [snip!] ... just really have no clue what to do. It's very uncomfortable for me and I know it would hurt him if I actually told him that. "
Quoting Not tellin:" I started feeling this way about my husband after giving birth to the twins. We litterally had sex ... [snip!] ... health and meds. The other part is is whining and begging for it. Makes it feel like a chore when all they talk about is sex."
Quoting Squeaky McGee:" I'm the same way. I don't enjoy sex or kissing. It's been that way for a long time. I have a hormonal ... [snip!] ... imbalance that needs correcting. I think that's part of the issue. That might be something you could discuss with your doctor."
Quoting GrumpyMa:" Im in the same boat. I cried the other day during sex. I really didnt want to have it but gave in because ... [snip!] ... going downstairs to watch tv or go on the computer. I completely understand where your at, I just dont know how to fix it..."I've noticed that when my hubby doesn't spend time focusing on me (on computer/phone/gaming) that I really don't care to have him touch me. I think that as women we need the 'foreplay' of attention or one-on-one time alone with our hubbys before we can get into the turned on stage. The hardest years of our marriage have been since we became parents. We alternate taking care of our son and the other one vegges out or runs errands. It give us personal alone time, but no together alone time. :-(
Quoting CakeBakin'Mama:" I've noticed that when my hubby doesn't spend time focusing on me (on computer/phone/gaming) that I really ... [snip!] ... care of our son and the other one vegges out or runs errands. It give us personal alone time, but no together alone time. :-("